There is a Zhong Hequn who is really acting. Let me give you an example to make you understand. When I first arrived at the university, my classmates came from all over the world. Some of them speak their own dialects, and it is a bit difficult to communicate. But what makes everyone get along happily, which you may not expect, is actually a game.

There are six people in our dormitory, four are playing games, and two can't play. I feel something is missing. In order to be more gregarious, they also downloaded the same game, played together and asked their roommates for help in the game. After this series of operations, the whole atmosphere is still quite harmonious, and they are gradually integrated into this circle. In fact, this Zhong Hequn is really acting.

Many gregarious people are actually performing, because everyone is afraid that others will find that they are different from them, which will produce a feeling of being out of the group and make people isolated. Once a person is isolated by everyone, he will gradually be marginalized. Marginalization is a very terrible thing. Slowly, people will not take you with them, ignore you, treat you as transparent, and gradually there will be no sense of existence. So in the end, there will be crowding out. You are not a member of the group, so you can't get along here, so people must change and get along with others, just like people. Sometimes we have to wear masks, wear the same clothes as others, and then follow their same rules.

Now some people use masks to describe people, which shows that everyone is acting, and acting is the most important thing in life. There is some truth in this statement. We must take action when necessary in the world. If we fail, we will be punished.

To sum up, the so-called gregarious is not necessarily acting. Some people are really doing things they don't want to do in order to be more gregarious, which is also a kind of acting.