Old people are really good to their children, but some things will "do bad things with good intentions" and even "deliberately treat them differently." Just as grandsons and grandsons are treated differently, so are grandsons and granddaughters.
Grandson and grandson were admitted to the university at the same time, and the old man was dissatisfied with the reward. Why can't we treat each other equally? Grandpa Cheng has a son and a daughter. Both son and daughter have a boy, that is, a grandson and a grandson, both of the same age. It stands to reason that the palm of your hand and the back of your hand are all meat, but Grandpa Cheng prefers his grandson.
Because of Grandpa Cheng's different treatment, both the daughter and grandson complained bitterly, and even the relationship between brother and sister was no longer so close. The reason is that both grandchildren have been admitted to the university. Although it is not a prestigious school, it is also a well-known university with good future prospects.
Grandpa Cheng wanted to encourage rewards, so he took out two red envelopes. Obviously, Sun Tzu's red envelope is thicker, almost 10 thousand, while Sun Tzu's red envelope is much thinner, only 3000 yuan. Such different treatment makes the grandson and daughter's family very dissatisfied.
Is it really that hard to blame my father for not having a uniform bowl of water? If it's because the grades are different, it's acceptable, but obviously Sun Tzu's grades are better. Finally, the grandchildren also left directly. Since then, my grandson seldom goes to Grandpa Cheng's house. Many netizens can't sit still after reading it.
What do you think of the difference between the elderly and their grandchildren? Faced with the different treatment of the elderly, some netizens said: Why should we treat them equally? This money belongs to the old man. He can give it to whoever he wants. Some netizens said: The old man's approach is right. The grandson belongs to his own family and the grandson belongs to someone else's family. ...
However, some netizens said: It's been 2 1 century. Who will watch this? After all, it may not be necessary to use grandchildren in the future, which is really inappropriate ... The debate among netizens is fierce, and most of them think that there is nothing wrong with the elderly.
But I personally think that daughters, like sons, should not be treated differently. What's more, the current situation is generally that the elderly use their daughters to help, and their sons rarely help, and most of them are "old-fashioned". What's more, no one can say that there will be no need for grandchildren in the future.
Imagine that when you are old, ask your grandson for help, and his grandson will think of the difference in treating the elderly. After all, Sun Tzu can't help because he is an outsider. And this kind of thing happens around us, which shows that family education is sometimes more important.
It is not only study but also family education that affects students' future. For students, although it is more about their own efforts and the assistance of teachers, parents are the first teachers of their children and have a far-reaching impact on students' learning and growth. Just like this kind of differential treatment, it will leave a bad influence on the psychology of children and grandchildren.
Grandchildren will think that they deserve more and are prone to deviation, while grandchildren will think that they are not liked and will also be biased. Although I graduated from high school, I learned a lot. But being treated unfairly will make students unforgettable.
Many times, I can't forget that this experience will also affect students' employment, work and life in the future. Therefore, family education is really important to students, no less than the exam-oriented education in schools.
Because many essential things of students are powerless to be changed by teachers, just as teachers are powerless to change the differential treatment of the elderly, and some are only clean. The best way to avoid this situation is to treat everyone equally or keep it private.