When we were young, our parents were both primary school teachers. Some people say that you are all teachers, and going home will definitely help your children learn. But my parents don't care about anything. I remember when our sisters forgot to do their homework during the holiday, my mother wrote a note to the teacher to help us avoid doing our homework. The teacher and my mother are colleagues, so don't bother us. We have a good time.
My parents' educational philosophy is that if you want to change this situation at home, you have to rely on yourself, study if you can, and work at home if you can. If we don't want to study, we have to work for others. In such an environment, our parents have tried their best to provide us with education. We all feel pain in our eyes and want to get ahead. It's not easy for our parents, especially after mom's decentralization.
Finally, we were admitted to the university, and our parents were not worried. Our two sisters even went to graduate school. Finally, my little sister decided not to study for a doctor. At that time, my mother was very ill and wanted to find a job and earn money quickly. Although mother let us "go with the flow", she guided us to a sea and gave us the courage to overcome all difficulties, which is enough for children.
Nowadays, many children seem to be learning from their parents. They simply don't know the meaning and direction of their efforts. That's because their parents are too tight, and their children's hard work is spent fighting with their parents. Parents should let go, your hand is loose. If he has a sense of crisis, he will study by himself. what do you think?
These are wise parents, and the children themselves have planned their future development.
I don't know what to volunteer for after the exam, and I don't know how to find a job after graduation. This is all managed, and it is likely to find a place where someone is in charge in the future.
Children with better self-development will have their own ideas and directions. If you want to be a manager in the company, you will be brilliant if you do it yourself.
Yes My father is a security guard and my mother is a property cleaner. They have a son who studies in a key high school. It is said that he studies very well. Someone asked them about the way they were educated. They said there was nothing they could do, so they said to their son, There are still a few acres of land at home. Go back to farming if you can't get into college.
My girl didn't indulge herself. But in adolescence, she rebelled and almost ignored her instructions. She didn't attend cram school for three years in high school. The exercise book she bought was only for multiple-choice questions, and she didn't finish it. As an art student, she only finishes her art homework when she goes home every day. Her schoolbag is empty, there are no culture books, and occasionally there are some crumpled papers. I have never seen her go home to do her homework or recite. Finally, the cultural score of the college entrance examination was not bad, and I was admitted to Chengdu.
Yes, you did. When my children go to school, there is basically no counseling and preaching except supervision. High school is basically a laissez-faire because I travel once every three days, not because I don't want to take care of it, but because I don't have time and energy to take care of it. Fortunately, children know why they want to learn and for whom. He told me when he was a sophomore, Dad, don't worry. I know I'm studying for myself. If I don't study hard, I will have no money in the future. Not only studying, but even filling in the volunteers didn't let us participate. I wanted him to apply to Renmin University of China, but he changed to Nanjing University of Science and Technology in private. From his mother's mouth, he thought I was too strict with him and wanted to leave home and travel by myself. Results The score was higher than the admission line of China Renmin University 12 and was admitted to Nanjing University of Science and Technology. After graduation, he was sent to Beijing Institute of Technology for further study. Say so much just to prove the internal and external causes, and the internal cause is the decisive factor.
China is too big. What do you think can't happen? Children who are born orphans have the possibility of going to a good university, but it is only a matter of probability.
That's too much. There are too many sensible children since childhood.
There must be children whose parents let them go to college.
In fact, reading is gifted. It is important for a person to be diligent, but IQ is also important. As long as anyone who has read the book knows, there must always be a few classmates around. They are not very diligent in their studies, but they have good grades because they have the talent to learn.
When we were young, our parents seldom took care of us. They have endless farm work every day. They can't finish it. They do farm work during the day and do some sideline work at night. How can they take care of us? We have to help our parents do some farm work after school, and we have been admitted to the university.
Only when a student develops good study habits, listens carefully in class, finishes his homework on time, previews before class, reviews after class, and asks the teacher what he doesn't understand, can the problems in his study be solved, and he will certainly have no problem in being admitted to the university. It may take more effort to get into a famous university!
I am. My parents basically ignored me since I was a child, and I never asked how many points I got in school. After the third grade, I even turned a blind eye to life. I often eat from my neighbor's house and stay in high school without asking me, but I was admitted to Guangxi Normal University in 1988 and have been a teacher for 30 years now.
What is laissez-faire?
Everything can't be taken for granted, and what others get in return must be years of corresponding efforts.
Get so much for nothing.