She asked me why. I said, probably because Zhong lives like a princess!
1, Zhong lives easily.
Compared with and, Zhong is the easiest person to live. Her family is from Shanghai, and both parents have decent jobs. She went to college in Shanghai and found a relatively stable job after graduation. Wang Manni cannot compare with this alone.
As a representative of people who came to Shanghai from a small city to work hard, Wang Manni worked very hard to stay in this city, but buying a house is the biggest obstacle, and renting a house is a big expense. Mannia earns a lot every month, but the rent she pays accounts for more than half of her salary. And Xiao Qin? Just earn enough money to spend on yourself every month, and even the family will subsidize her.
This state determines that Qin Xiao doesn't have to be a strong woman or work hard for anything. She just needs to finish the work as required every day. With the help of her parents, she married a husband with a stable career. Her husband bought a fund-raising house in the company, and her parents gave them a car. Usually they go to work, and when they come home from work, they can still have dinner cooked by Qin Xiao's mother. Such a life, who will envy! Qin Xiao can live like a little princess because she has the capital.
The more people who have suffered, the less willing they are to let their children experience the hardships. Therefore, most parents prefer that their children have no great achievements and hope that their children can live a relaxed life. Mannia's mother advised Mannia to go home, hoping that she could live like Qin Xiao.
2. Zhong is optimistic.
To tell the truth, only a girl like Xiao Qin can live with Chen Yu for so many years. Because Qin Xiao is really an optimist.
Although Chen Yu was cold to her in every way, she never cared. Just like when she is at work, no matter how others ask her to do it, she will not be angry and will finish it happily. No matter how Chen Yu helped his brother, Xiao Qin was not angry. On her 30th birthday, she couldn't get through to Chen Yu, but she still tried to help Chen Yu's brother pay the fine. She's pregnant. Chen Yu doesn't want it. She feels it.
Later, Gu Jia helped her defeat Chen Yu. Chen Yu was very angry when he learned about it. She said a few words to Xiao Qin, but Xiao Qin said nothing. Qin Xiao is the kind of person who will be happy if someone gives her a little warmth. Chen Yu said that she didn't want children, but she was so happy that she installed a small lamp for her. Qin Xiao said she was hungry and asked Chen Yu to cook jiaozi. Chen Yu said that she didn't want to cook, but she did, and she was so happy. This heartless Qin Xiao is the safe haven that Chen Yu has always wanted. Because Qin Xiao can give warmth to people around you. Later, something happened to Chen Yu, and Xiao Qin took care of him at home regardless of the past.
Something happened in the shopping center. She was bitten by human flesh online, and she was very sad, but a chocolate cake can make her happy again. Such a girl, her happiness is very simple, and her sadness is very short. She is good at finding the good in others and often forgets the bad in others. Therefore, she seems heartless, but she lives the happiest life.
3. The clock pair has enough sense of security.
Zhong can live like this because she comes from a happy family. The family she came from loved her as a little princess, and even took good care of her after marriage.
Because she has a happy childhood and no regrets, she can live so simply as an adult. Compared with and, Zhong is the most reassuring person. Gu Jia once said that the happier she is, the more afraid she is, because she is afraid that little things will ruin her happiness. Because my mother left early, there was a place in her heart.
Because of her inner defects, she pursues perfection everywhere, hoping that the next generation will not repeat her own mistakes. But many times life is strange. The more you pursue perfection, the less you will be perfect. On the 30th birthday, I asked Zhong: You and I are classmates. Did you envy her for a moment? Zhong said no, I always admired her. I think, if Wang Manni were you, she would be jealous of Gu Jia. Even because of jealousy, they can't be good friends.
On the other hand, Qin Xiao never envied Gu Jia. Although her life is better than hers, she never asked Chen Yu or wanted to live like that. Because she has enough security in her heart. There are people outside, Gu Jia is a middle class, there are rich people above the middle class, and there are rich people above the rich. Only when you are satisfied with your own happiness can you live happily. Zhong is the kind of person who can be satisfied with his inner world.
I think, if I have a daughter, I hope she can live like Qin Xiao. I will give her a lot of love, and I hope I can keep her naive and beautiful. Although her life will be bumpy, I know that she has love and security in her heart and can definitely cope with all the storms of life. A happy childhood is enough to cure her life.