In love, both men and women. Love between each other is equal. If it is not based on equality and mutual benefit, this relationship will go wrong sooner or later. Because love is never one-sided, one person pays too much, and another person doesn't respond again and again, then this feeling becomes a tilted balance. Without equal feelings, there is no way to achieve stable happiness, and people who keep paying will become more humble. The humbler love is, the more painful it is.
Both men and women should respect and love themselves when dealing with their feelings. If you can't even love yourself, how can you ask others to love you sincerely?
We must also stick to our own bottom line. In a relationship, the most taboo is that there is no bottom line No matter how incomprehensible the other party is, it will eventually be forgiven. Although it will be stable for a while, as time goes by, the other party will only cross the line, because I think you have no bottom line, I can do whatever I want, and it is ok to hurt you.
Stand firm, firm the bottom line, and don't lower your bottom line easily. Lowering your bottom line again and again is to keep this feeling. However, the feelings you left behind are humble, short-lived and easily broken. The other party will not change their minds because of your humbleness. The most unbearable thing is to endure everything in the end.
I like you and can do many things for you impulsively, whether you like me or not; But I dare not love you, because I love you and I hope you can do the same to me. I like you, then I can follow you silently and occasionally jump out in front of you to surprise you; But I dare not love you, because love needs to be shown all the time, and I always hope to tie your heart. I like you, so I will tell myself to be noble; But I dare not love you, because I don't want to be humble? -Excerpts