1, Shen
It's not the kind of heavy feeling that a fat man weighing more than 200 kilograms feels on the kang, nor is it the kind of heavy feeling that you can't see three farts with one stick.
On the contrary, the mentality and cognition are heavier.
Is to be tolerant and understand the changes in the world. However, the complexity of human nature has long been known, and the operation will never be deformed in the face of pressure, and the problem will still be considered as a whole.
Nowadays, many young people are natural, and the pressure on their shoulders can't bear it. They can't hold anything in their hearts. They both felt how hard the work was when they squeezed the bus twice, and they were moved after working for two days. The goddess smiled at you and couldn't sleep for three days.
however
Really mature people are masters of diluting their emotions, and their emotions will be diluted by themselves.
They are like an old pine tree, and a 10-level wind may not blow away a branch of them.
Even if a beautiful woman is pregnant, she can resist the impulse to stand up and calmly think about whether there is fraud.
Mature people are like this, using better choices to avoid the coming risks. Children never consider the consequences, and adults know how to weigh the pros and cons best.
2. release; Emissions; issue
A person really let go, three times.
The first time:
Is that I find that I am not the center of the world.
The second time:
It is when I find that no matter how hard I try, there are still some things I can't do.
The third time:
It is when you know that something may be powerless, but you will strive for it.
When you were a child, you thought you were Altman's body, and all the little monsters in the world could be knocked down by themselves. When you are a little older, you will find that you can't even beat Pang Hu in your class.
In junior high school, you fell in love with the most beautiful girl in your class. You think you can catch up with her as long as you are sincere. Finally, she fell in love with a little bastard, but your love letter is still spinning in your pocket.
After graduating from college, you feel that God is destined to give you a great responsibility. However, the fact is that you bow to others and serve tea and water for a job with a monthly salary of 4,000 yuan.
At this time, some people can't let go of the aura of school and forget the warmth of home. He became a cynical writer, and since then he has indulged himself and only dared to be a hero on the Internet.
However, truly mature people can let go of the past and their unrealistic ideas, swallow their dreams when they are shattered, and light up when they are gone.
My mind is not looking forward to the elite life with an annual salary of one million, but carefully considering how to realize the small goal of saving 20 thousand this year.
I no longer envy rich girls who buy one or two thousand bags at a time, but seriously think about how to double my performance this month.
Putting it down is not giving up.
Let go of the unreality of youth.
Let go of the frivolous pride of youth.
I let go of my sentimental little temper.
3. Tibet
This "hiding" means hiding the front of the body and covering up one's own nature.
The depths of human nature are the worst: lust, greed, laziness, jealousy and selfishness.
The most despicable component is hidden in human nature, which is formed by the evolution of human beings in the past 10 thousand years.
If man is not evil, how can he defeat the beast?
If people are not sexy, how can they reproduce?
If people are not greedy, how can they keep evolving?
However, modern humans are getting better and better at hiding the evil of nature.
There are two kinds of men in front of the midnight bar.
Little diaosi has been staring at the girl who dances in hot pants. Tonight, I think the demand of solo is exposed without three sentences! Rao, even if you reach into the sky, you can't take a girl away.
The old hooligans dressed appropriately and sat on the bar like gentlemen. They looked thoughtfully at the girls in the middle of the dance floor, and even if they wanted to dance solo in private, there would be no performance on the surface. At two o'clock in the morning, the old rascal has refueled the driver, ready to have a good taste.
This is the importance of hiding.
Hide despicable human nature, reveal the rationality of serious people, pretend to be mysterious as the sea, so that people can't see through your cards and can't control the table and below.