After two or three months, she thought I was a nice person, so she became my girlfriend and later my wife. Up to now, she is still my wife.
If a 4.25-year-old man has never been in love, it can be said that his physiology and psychology are completely abnormal! I spent five miserable years in college without love. But you have to believe that someone is always waiting for you.
5. Chasing girls with schoolbags all over the school, and finally seeing one. I followed her for more than three months and she didn't find it, because I was more than 200 meters away from her every time. In the library, she often reads books there and I see her there. I dare not take a step forward for three months.
6. In college, if you meet a girl you like very much, you should bravely confess to her, regardless of your appearance and background. Even if you can't catch up, at the very least, success can make her regret it.
7. I went to America one year and had dinner with a girl I liked very much in my former class. She and her husband have dinner with me. I told her at dinner that I actually had a crush on you in college. She patted her thigh and said, then why didn't you tell me?
8. There is no need to commit suicide because of lovelorn love. This is a very sad thing. I died of a man who loved life. I dare not even step on ants. What do you think the female ant will do if I step on a male ant? So I usually don't eat fish, just eat two!
9. What matters in college love is the process, not the result! At that time, our class talked about 10 couples in love. After graduating from college, 3 couples got married and 2 couples divorced within 2 years. Up to now, there are still 65,438+0 couples. They are Mr. and Mrs. Wang Qiang. They still live a happy life on the surface. (This is the reality of college love, right? Just a process)
10. Finally, as soon as the lights in the library went out, I helped her find her schoolbag. Later, I asked her to go boating in the Bohai Sea, where the scenery is beautiful, the waters are vast and the people are sparsely populated. This is a good starting point, students! When the boat rowed into the middle of the water, I found no one around. I think it's up to her now. Promise me or push me down and drown!
1 1. When you really love someone, you should tell him that you love him in an appropriate way, not just in your heart. I fell in love with many girls in college, but I kept it in my heart because I was afraid of being rejected by others. But in fact, it can better reflect the pursuit of people. Even if the girl refuses, she will definitely write it in her diary when she goes home, and there is another boy chasing me today.
12, and if you can talk about a love, it is still very good. But a very important prerequisite for falling in love is wholeheartedly love. The so-called heart-and-soul love does not mean that you can only talk about love once in college, but only one at a time. How much do you want to love? To feel this way, why are my eyes full of tears? Because I love you deeply.
13, you can't give up at once, you have to chase 10 times at least, and you can't finish it in one day. It doesn't feel much to chase 10 times on the same day. It takes at least 10 weeks, and once a week, I deeply confess: Iloveyou, right? If 10 doesn't work, forget it. Because you have worked hard, don't get 100 and 200 times. In the end, you will have two mental disorders: one is chased out by you and the other is insane.
14, speak generously. The so-called generosity means that when another person falls in love with others, he must be generous and tell him that your happiness is my happiness and your happiness is my happiness. I always feel that people are predestined friends in the world. If no one loves you in college, there will always be someone who loves you in your later years, waiting for your hand in hand in the future journey.
15, and if you can talk about a love, it is still very good. But a very important prerequisite for falling in love is wholeheartedly love. The so-called heart-and-soul love does not mean that you can only talk about love once in college, but only one at a time. How much do you want to love? To feel this way, [why are my eyes full of tears? Because I love you deeply.
16, in college, you will fall in love with another person more or less deeply, whether it is a man who loves men or a woman who loves women, or a woman who loves men. It becomes unrequited love. In the end, you became mentally ill, and the other party didn't even know it was because of her. Then you said you were lucky. Can you at least let the other person know that I am mentally ill because of you? Let her have at least a little psychological burden (yes, love should be bravely said! )
17, the so-called love, what does it feel like to succeed in love? I said that the feeling of love is success: why are my eyes full of tears? That's because I love you deeply! Love never betrays. If she/he doesn't love you, bless them and bless them until the divorce? I always believe that everyone who comes to this world will be loved. Although she/he hasn't appeared yet, she/he must be waiting for you at some time in the future?
Yu's love quotations
1, there is no need to commit suicide because of lovelorn. This is a very sad thing. I am a person who loves life. I dare not step on ants. What do you think the female ant will do if I step on a male ant? So I usually don't eat fish, just eat two! In college, if you meet a girl you like very much, you should bravely confess to her, regardless of your appearance and background. Even if you can't catch up, at the very least, success can make her regret it.
Be generous, bless them, let them fall in love, let them get married and divorce. (Actually, many people who say blessing on the surface think so. )
4. If a woman looks younger than her actual age, but her mind is mature, it is easier to get things done; But men are just the opposite. No matter how mature a man is, if he looks younger than his actual age, especially when he looks like a teenager, he is usually considered an immature person. A man who looks a little vicissitudes will give people a sense of reliability and credibility. Youth is a woman's passport, and vicissitudes are men's credit cards.
5, talk generously, the so-called generosity means that when another person falls in love with others, he must be generous and say to him that your happiness is my happiness, and your happiness is my happiness. I always feel that people are predestined friends in the world. If no one loves you in college, there will always be someone who loves you in your later years, waiting for your hand in hand in the future journey.
6. True pure love is only now, only now, and love is not because of the past or the future. Not because the past is history, loving history will lose the beauty of the present, not because the future has not yet happened, but because loving for the future will gain a utilitarian secularity. Love doesn't ask about cause and effect, but when it asks about cause and effect, it falls into a stereotype. Why love? The best answer is love for love's sake. The highest state of love is to turn the feeling of a moment into eternity.
7. You can't give up right away. You have to chase 10 times at least, and you can't chase it all in one day. Chase 10 times on the same day and you don't feel anything. It takes at least 10 weeks, and once a week, I deeply confess: Iloveyou, right? If 10 doesn't work, because you have worked hard, don't get 100 and 200 times. In the end, you will have two mental disorders: one is chased out by you and the other is insane.
8. It is not enough for a woman to be beautiful. She also needs a little artistic temperament and elegance. Beauty can only attract men's eyes for a while, and elegance can win men's admiration for a long time. Men generally do not like women who are too practical. The difference between Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu is not appearance, but secularity and art, so Baoyu prefers Lin. But women's artistic temperament should not be too strong, which is the root of Lin Daiyu's misfortune.
9. What matters in college love is the process, not the result! At that time, our class talked about 10 couples in love. After graduating from college, 3 couples got married and 2 couples divorced within 2 years. Up to now, there are still 65,438+0 couples. They are Mr. and Mrs. Wang Qiang. They still live a happy life on the surface. (college love is such a reality ~ it's just a process)
10. Nowadays, the love between men and women is always promised too quickly, and the result is that they break up too quickly. The laws of human nature are easy to get and easy to give up. No matter what you get through hard work, whether it is feelings or things, people will feel cherished. So emotionally, when someone pursues you, you need to be reserved. Even if you love her/him very much, you need to give the pursuer time and difficulty, so that they can cherish their feelings more when they are together and last forever.
1 1, what matters in college love is the process, not the result! At that time, our class talked about 10 couples in love. After graduating from college, 3 couples got married and 2 couples divorced within 2 years. Up to now, there are still 65,438+0 couples. They are Mr. and Mrs. Wang Qiang. They still live a happy life on the surface. College love is such a reality ~ just a process.
12, in college, you will fall in love with another person more or less deeply, whether it is a man who loves men or a woman who loves women or a woman who loves men. It becomes unrequited love. Finally, you become mentally ill, and the other person doesn't even know it's because of her. Then you said you were lucky. Can you at least let the other person know that I am mentally ill because of you? Let her have at least a little psychological burden (yes, love should be bravely said)
13, what matters in college love is the process, not the result! At that time, our class talked about 10 couples in love. After graduating from college, 3 couples got married and 2 couples divorced within 2 years. Up to now, there are still 65,438+0 couples. They are Mr. and Mrs. Wang Qiang. They still live a happy life on the surface.
14, Yu said: there is no need to commit suicide because of lovelorn. This is a very sad thing. I am a person who loves life and dare not step on ants. What do you think the female ant will do if I step on a male ant? So I usually don't eat fish, just eat two!
15, and if you can talk about a love, it is still very good. But a very important prerequisite for falling in love is wholeheartedly love. The so-called heart-and-soul love does not mean that you can only talk about love once in college, but only one at a time. How much do you want to love? To feel this way, why are my eyes full of tears? Because I love you deeply.
16, women look for men to find the future, and men look for women to find the present, which makes sense. Women are more psychologically dependent than men, so women's view of men, connotation and background, and appearance are secondary. The connotation determines their future development potential, and the background determines their future living conditions. When a man looks at a woman, the first thing he looks at is her appearance and personality. If you like her, she can be unscrupulous. Men like women and dare to marry in any capacity. Women like men and generally don't get married without a future.
17, Yu said: there is no need to commit suicide because of lovelorn. That's a very sad thing. I am a person who loves life. I dare not step on ants. What do you think the female ant will do if I step on a male ant? So I usually don't eat fish, just two (kindness is a good quality at any time).
18, when you really love someone, you should tell him you love him in an appropriate way, not just in your heart. I fell in love with many girls in college, but I kept it in my heart because I was afraid of being rejected by others. But in fact, it can better reflect the pursuit of people. Even if the girl refuses, she will definitely write it in her diary when she goes home, and there is another boy chasing me today. I went to America one year and had dinner with a girl I liked very much in my former class. She and her husband had dinner with me. I told her at dinner that I actually had a crush on you in college. She patted her thigh and said, then why didn't you tell me?
19, the so-called love, what does it feel like to succeed in love? I said that the feeling of love is success: why are my eyes full of tears? That's because I love you deeply! Love never betrays. If she/he doesn't love you, bless them until the divorce. I always believe that everyone who comes to this world will be loved. Although she/he hasn't appeared yet, she/he will wait for you at some time in the future.
Mr.yu
The chairman and president of New Oriental Education Group is now the most expensive teacher. At first, due to his wife's endless nagging, Yu made the decision to abandon teaching and go into business. Later, he founded New Oriental. After more than ten years of struggle, from the initial dozens of students to the successful listing on the New York Stock Exchange, it has finally become the largest private education group in China. I remember that during the two sessions this year, NPC representatives suggested that college English teaching could be contracted to New Oriental. Again, professional things are better left to professional people!
1, what does the happiness of one's life come from? From a sense of accomplishment! Parents found a job for their children, bought a house, chose a daughter-in-law and gave money, but why is the child still unhappy? Because you deprive children of the right to gain a sense of accomplishment through their own struggle! The sense of accomplishment is not from school to college entrance examination 18 years, just for this one thing. A sense of accomplishment comes from everyday life! Read a good book and cook a good meal for your family. Optimism and a sense of accomplishment come from every day.
1, New Oriental Dream Tour Speech, I came to Guilin with several lecturers from New Oriental, and I was a little leisure in the morning. Seeing someone swimming in the Lijiang River, some locals said it was eight meters deep, while others said: I dare to swim eight meters. I said: For swimmers, it makes no difference whether the water depth is eight meters or one meter, because good swimmers don't need to consider the water depth. Similarly, a good person does not need to take into account the depth of others.
2. If you feel empty, feel empty at home, feel empty at work, and feel empty on the road, as long as you choose to fill the emptiness, it must not be a bad thing, indicating that you may do something interesting right away. Many splendid flower of life may open in emptiness.
3. If a person thinks too highly of himself, he will be looked down upon by others; A person with low self-esteem will be respected by others. Deliberately raising yourself is a kind of guilty conscience, and deliberately belittling yourself will also be affected. A peaceful look, a sincere attitude and a generous attitude that doesn't care whether others think it is noble or not are the guarantee of a peaceful life.
4. Someone asked me what to do in the face of the company's complicated interpersonal relationship. My answer is: interpersonal relationships are everywhere. As long as your heart is simple and everything is simple, do what you think is right, don't participate in right and wrong, do what you think is right, and don't do anything that goes against your own principles and caters to others. Get along well with colleagues, don't talk about others behind their backs, but mention how much others praise you, so that you can be a man and do things.
5. Goals and dreams are the core components of growth. Study hard and work hard is the only way to grow up. The courage to conquer and a happy mood are nutrients for growth. Constant reading and independent thinking are accelerators of growth.
6. Some people only have problems in their minds, and there are no methods and paths to solve them, so problems will always exist. This is a complainer; Some people can see problems and think of ways and paths to solve them at the same time. This is the manager; Some people solve problems before they come out. This is a clever man. Some people have no problems, but they create a lot of problems themselves. This is much ado about nothing. I seem to be more like the fourth kind of person, which has caused many problems.
7. I saw a sentence: There are not necessarily pies in the sky, but there are often traps on the ground! Sometimes it really is! Therefore, it may be better to change "looking up at the stars and keeping your feet on the ground" to "looking up at the stars and keeping your feet on the ground". Looking up at the starry sky is a kind of beauty. Even if no pie falls, at least it won't fall into a trap.
8. Big things often have to be done step by step from small things. Without a solid foundation for doing small things, it is difficult to achieve great things in one step. Founders often start with small things. People who can do things have the following three characteristics: first, they are willing to do things from an early age and know that doing small things is the only way to achieve great things; The second is to have a goal in mind and know what the final result is when small things accumulate; The third is to have a spirit to bring things from quantitative change to qualitative change.
9, but seek growth, not success, let success become the inevitable result of growth, this is the most correct way to succeed. If we only expect the success of the result, life will inevitably grow and eventually wither and die. A butterfly flew into the sky, showing all her beauty, but behind the beauty, she had the clumsy crawling of caterpillars, the hard work of spinning cocoons, the waiting in the dark, and the pain of turning into a butterfly.
10, people who don't compare with others and focus on their own world are happy. They love their study, work and life. The essence of life lies in the happiness of life, which is lasting and quiet, not fleeting. So this kind of pleasure must come from the mind, not from the possession of material in the real world. Compared with material satisfaction, spiritual abundance is the source of real happiness.
1 1. Self-confidence comes from the heart, not from comparison with others. Comparing with others can never bring true self-confidence. The result of comparison is either false superiority or strong inferiority complex. These two feelings have nothing to do with the real you and confidence. Self-confidence is a kind of self-affirmation, affirming that you can do better in some aspects, rather than being better than others in all aspects.
12, human life consists of two aspects: heartbeat and action; Heartbeat is the ideal and ambition in your heart. People are idealistic animals, and your heart can dominate your life, so only what you think or want in your heart will have motivation. But if you only have ideals and no action, it will become a fantasy; The heart yearns for the distance, and the action is towards the distant with the feet, so only by combining the heart and the feet can life go further.
13, time used to be complete and quiet, but now our time is cut into pieces every day, and we have to do dozens of things every day, but we seem to have done nothing before going to bed. What a tragedy! It's like life is cut into pieces. Only when the dragon is complete can it cross the world. After being dismembered, there is no life. If only one day I could concentrate on reading, chatting with people and doing what I like.
14. In a wasteland, grass grows fastest, then shrubs grow out slowly, then all kinds of miscellaneous trees grow out, and grass and shrubs disappear because there is no sunshine. After a long time, pine trees will grow out of miscellaneous trees, gradually surpass miscellaneous trees, and finally stand there for thousands of years. People are the same. Some people, such as grass, shrubs and miscellaneous trees, grow fast on the surface, but they are not long. Some people grow slowly, but they are like pine trees. When they grow up, they are great talents.
15, sometimes life is like a cloud in the sky. We look at the clouds in the sky on the ground, floating freely, carrying the blue sky and endless beauty, but if we walk into the clouds, we will find that the fog is surging and we are at a loss. In reality, we sometimes feel that life is also confused, because we are too immersed in life; If we can take a step back and look at life on the ground like a cloud in the sky, maybe life will be better.
16, wandering around because I haven't found a place to live; The reason why I wander around is because I haven't found a career to fight for my life; We are lonely because we haven't found a love that focuses on our whole life. It's really hard to have a home, a career and a relative to accompany you. But this is the meaning of hard work in life: having a home, a career and a loved one to accompany you.
17, inferiority will hurt people, overconfidence is close to arrogance, and we need real confidence. What is true self-confidence? If a person can talk frankly about his failures and setbacks, clearly know his strengths and weaknesses, stop thinking about his looks and figure, face the cynicism of others, smile with tolerance, know that what he is doing is meaningful, and be able to do things better through hard work, this is probably self-confidence.
18, people should live independently in the world, especially spiritually; This does not mean not dealing with others or helping each other. But some people, like vines, always rely on sticks wrapped around walls and trees, or even rotten sticks to survive, and often wrap the trees to death in the end; People should be like trees, rooted in the land and grow independently. The intersection of branches between trees is an exchange of feelings and a greeting of friendship, but the spirit is like the trunk of a tree, always independent.
19, life is a drama, the stage is empty before going on stage, and it is still empty after stepping down. Whether life is wonderful or not depends on the process of acting and the role you play; Drama includes tragedy, comedy, sitcom, heroic drama, burlesque and horror drama. We can't completely decide the story, but we can try to decide our role. Some people become comedies, some people become tragedies, and some people become farce.
20. If we have acne on our face, we will pay special attention to covering it up, for fear that others will look at it, and we always think it will be ugly. In fact, others pay little attention to it, and there will be no negative comments after seeing it; But for those intangible shortcomings, such as self-righteous, petty and narrow-minded, we often don't hide them and don't correct them, thinking that others can't see them, but it's just human instinct. We can't see ourselves clearly, but we can see others clearly, so we will be indifferent to your shortcomings.
Yu classic quotations
Yu classic quotations
1. Difficulties and hardships are the source of happiness, and ease and enjoyment are the beginning of suffering.
Luck can't last forever. The only thing that can help you last a lifetime is your personal ability.
Even the most hopeless thing, as long as brave people persist in doing it, there will be hope in the end.
4. The person who moves from inferiority to self-confidence is the real self-confidence. People who are blind and confident from the beginning are actually not confident.
Some people's life is not brilliant, not because they can't be brilliant, but because they don't have brilliant ideas in their minds, or they don't know how to be brilliant.
6. There is no end to success, no end to life, no end to the hardships and hardships of life, and no end to the gains and joy gained after hard work. When you fully understand the meaning of "endless success", the beauty of life will spread her charming smile to you.
7. The snail's shell is added by itself.
8. As long as the snail climbs to the top of the pyramid, it sees the world and gains the same achievements as the eagle.
9. All rivers run into the sea. Take whatever you can. The spoonful of water I can drink is definitely what I want to drink most.
10, starting a business is actually easier than having children. One person will do, not two.
1 1. When starting a business, don't treat yourself as a person.
12, I gave them everything just to let them follow me.
13, * * * wealth is difficult to distribute benefits. When * * * encounters difficulties, everyone's first thought is future wealth. In principle, it is not difficult for * * * to have money if the principle of benefit distribution is well explained in advance. The terrible thing is that * * * didn't think that there would be interest distribution in the future when it was in trouble.
14, I am more like Liu Bei. I often use tears to win the sympathy of other managers. I am not good at using discipline to restrain and manage talents.
15, don't form the situation of romance of the Three Kingdoms. When you get to the new city, you must tear down the mountain, or you will not do it. Why? Because in the end, when your family competes with the other two companies, all the costs are spent on human resources and marketing advertisements, and there may be no gains in the end. It is better to send a stronger person and spend a lot of money to gather all other parties, so that it will become an independent kingdom, and the cost of an independent kingdom is the lowest.
16, a brick is useless, and a pile of bricks is useless. If you don't have a dream of building a house in your heart, owning all the bricks in the world is also a pile of waste; But if there is only a dream of building a house without bricks, the dream cannot be realized.
17. Every river has a dream: to run to the sea. Both the Yangtze River and the Yellow River run to the sea in different ways. The Yangtze River splits the mountain to clear the way, and the Yellow River twists and turns with different trajectories. But they all have the spirit of water. In the process of running water, if you precipitate in the sediment, you will never see the sun.