This sentence is often said by high school teachers. In fact, it encourages you to study hard and gives you an expectation. After studying in college, there is no pressure to go to school and more time after school, which makes me feel relaxed. College is not that easy. You should live a worse life than high school.
The pressure you should have now is: room, car and ticket. Because two or three years after graduation, you will face these problems. It is better to prepare now than to be caught off guard. To put it bluntly, what you need to learn now is the ability to make money, learn knowledge and learn skills.
2. Universities should cultivate practical ability and interpersonal relationship.
Tell the truth, is the purpose of joining a club really to exercise various abilities? What kind of interpersonal relationship can you cultivate now that you have nothing? I often hear seniors and sisters say that other abilities should be exercised in universities. These words may be your excuse for being lazy.
The most important thing in college is always learning, but what to learn is more important. If you don't want to listen in class, don't waste your time on your major. Find someone who is good at and interested in, and you will be admitted to the university. There is nothing you can't learn. The question is whether you want to. It is more important to learn a skill than to cultivate the so-called ability in college.
3. Exercise alcohol during college. There is an argument in the university, to exercise alcohol, drink after work to talk about business, and drink when you go out with leaders. This is complete nonsense. If drinking can talk business, why go to college? After years of hard work, I haven't been able to go out for a drink with the leader. Are you sure you have a chance to drink?
I often see some drunken people on campus, and some even brought them back by my classmates. I really strongly despise such people. I don't need to pretend like that, so I'm not afraid to drink to death. Drinking is ok, but it must be moderate, don't try to be brave, don't feel ashamed, your body is your own, and you don't even care about your own body. Who can you expect to be good to?
4. Whose university is not confused. If college is used for confusion, you can save money without going to college. The university is very confused, and you will be more empty and directionless when you graduate from school. One wrong step, one wrong step, one careless step will lose the game.
Confusion can't be eaten as a meal, it's a disease and can be cured. The solution is very simple. Find something useful to learn, and you will be a guy who eats in the future. Nothing is just a scholar, who talks about people who just talk and don't practice.
5. A university that doesn't fall in love is incomplete.
Even if you fall in love, will your university be complete? Sometimes there must be something in life. Don't insist all the time, let nature take its course and meet you unexpectedly. Some people will find one for love, and even agree to break up after graduation. It's so lonely and empty Some people chat in various ways on social media, um ... that's dating, not love.
The more expectations, the more disappointments. Don't be so hungry. Use the time saved by not falling in love to make yourself better, and you can find something more satisfactory in the future. Be patient with love.
6. Get along well with teachers in college. No matter how good you are with your teacher, he will not be responsible for your future. Some students think they have a good relationship with the teacher, and the teacher gives him something to do, so they feel that they attach importance to him. When judging the best, give him a quota and you will feel that you have earned it. Such people are either capable or corrupt. Do you think you have a future with a certificate? It's naive. Only true talent and practical learning is the ultimate law to deal with survival.
Of course, it's not that you ignore the teacher. Not so absolute. Just get along with each other with respect. Natural, not deliberately cater to, not deliberately please.
7. Get employed before choosing a job. There are several choices in life. Your first job largely determines your future industry and field, because after work, the club wants work experience. At that time, if you want to choose another industry, you will feel guilty if you don't have the relevant ability and work experience, not to mention that the enterprise doesn't want you.
My friend went to work in a factory after graduation. Because the environment is not very good, he wants to quit his job and do some other industries. As a result, he hit a wall. Because the factory and the office building are completely different things, and because he is a novice, his salary is particularly low. He hesitated for a long time, but chose to continue to do it in the factory.
Therefore, when looking for your first job, you must be considerate and don't be passive because of the randomness now.