At noon on September 8th, the reporter followed Zhao Jinfeng to a rented house in Changbei Economic Development Zone and met his mother with mental illness. Zhao Jinfeng, who took her mother to college, comes from Yushan Village, Tiaohe Township, yongcheng city City, Henan Province. She is 22 years old and studies at Nanchang Institute of Technology. /kloc-at the age of 0/5, her father died of illness, leaving her and her mother unable to work. Despite the twists and turns along the way, with the help of my uncle and relatives, I completed my high school studies and was admitted to the university.
Besides studying, Zhao Jinfeng is most concerned about her mother's illness. "She should accept the injustice of the creator, accompany her sick mother and make up for the company she owed in recent years."
Family changes
Zhao Jinfeng knew from an early age that she had a special mother. /kloc-at the age of 0/5, she witnessed her father's death due to cancer, looked at the cold body in front of her eyes, and sadly hinted that she "didn't want to study any more". That year, Zhao Jinfeng faced the senior high school entrance examination.
Recalling her unhappy childhood life, Zhao Jinfeng vented her pain with tears and shouts. The main reason for her despair is her mother's illness.
Zhao Jinfeng's mother suffered from congenital mental illness. She married from Shaanxi to Henan before she was 25 years old. She gave birth to her daughter when she was nearly forty. Five years ago, she suffered from hemiplegia due to nervous system damage. She is 6 1 year old and weighs less than 80 kg.
Hereditary mental illness will be accompanied by many complications. Zhao Jinfeng took her mother to major hospitals for examination many times, and the doctor gave her the answer: long-term medication, incurable, not in labor, unresponsive, unable to take care of herself. For families without financial resources, this blow is devastating.
Uncle's promise
The day after his father died, Zhao Jinfeng found her uncle who was busy with the funeral and said that she could no longer study. If she wants to continue her studies, it will take at least seven years. She can't imagine what she would do without her mother.
This proposal was opposed by my uncle, who told Zhao Jinfeng not to give up her studies and said that she would take good care of her mother. On 20 12, Zhao Jinfeng was admitted to a local key high school. Her uncle, who is nearly 70 years old, not only keeps his promise, but also bears all the economic expenses of her three years in high school.
From grade one to grade three, I go home once every two weeks, and the one-way trip is about 1 hour. Seeing her daughter come back, the mother is as happy as a child every time. Zhao Jinfeng said it was her happiest time.
Take my mother to school for the first time.
When Zhao Jinfeng received the acceptance notice from Nanchang Institute of Technology, she laughed for a long time and was silent for a long time. "After four years of college, I want to leave my hometown and my mother." Previously, she wanted to apply for schools in the province, but failed to do so. Uncle assured her to study abroad, and his mother was taken care of by him.
2065438+In September 2005, my cousin accompanied Zhao Jinfeng to register at the school. In addition to the national student loan, other tuition and living expenses are borrowed from relatives and friends. Many students have asked her why a girl chose the major of engineering cost. Zhao Jinfeng said, "I want to make money for my future life with my mother.".
In his spare time, Zhao Jinfeng found several part-time jobs. When things are good, she can earn 100 yuan a day. With the money saved, she rented a house less than 30㎡ off campus and rented 500 yuan monthly.
20 16 in September, Zhao Jinfeng took her mother to Nanchang for the first time. She kept it a secret from the people around her until one night in the last month of Grade Two, when she witnessed her mother's sudden convulsion, which scared her to call 120 immediately.
The doctor told Zhao Jinfeng that in addition to slight hemiplegia, her mother also suffered from arteriosclerosis and epilepsy. She knew there was no cure for the disease.
That winter vacation, my uncle insisted that Zhao Jinfeng's mother stay in her hometown and let her go back to school to study hard.
No more separation
After returning to school, Zhao Jinfeng often dreamed of her mother at night and always thought of her elderly uncle. "He has helped enough, and I dare not ask for more." After further consideration, she decided to take her mother with her.
After the second semester of sophomore year, Zhao Jinfeng returned to her hometown and spent a week persuading her uncle. On August 28th, 20 17, she took her mother on the train to Nanchang for the second time and continued to rent the rented house a year ago.
As I seldom go back to the dormitory, the thing of taking my mother to college was finally discovered by the class teacher. On September 7th, the school decided to waive part of Zhao Jinfeng's tuition fees, and organized students to donate 22,046 yuan.
Zeng Xinglong, secretary of the School of Engineering Management, once thought of arranging separate dormitories for Zhao Jinfeng's mother and daughter. Finally, considering that Zhao's mother suffers from mental illness, the school agreed to rent a house outside.
On September 10, Zhao Jinfeng found a part-time job at school. She hopes to earn her living expenses and her mother's medical expenses while completing her studies. "I believe that the future will get better and better, at least I can accompany my mother."
A strong girl, I hope she can live happily with her mother, and I believe the road will be better in the future.