As a psychological practitioner, I have heard a lot of such things even if I have never seen them.

Several friends around me have done this before.

Finally, I was moved by my boyfriend's sincerity! Decided to jump out of this strange circle!

As a result, the same problem as you came!

Does the boyfriend accept it or not?

In the cases I met, there were seven situations, and only one chose to accept it completely and get married!

The two chose to accept it, but their parents strongly opposed it and left!

Another returned to the past because of the strong obstruction of the other lover and continued to complain about the love triangle. ...

The rest ended up breaking up and continuing to be other people's mistresses.

Among them, the girl is the most popular model, her lover is also a celebrity, and her boyfriend is his lover's son! Six months later, this relationship ended because I sent my son abroad.

Regarding your question, you said you wanted to know what to do.

Then ask yourself,

1. Do you think she will continue this strange relationship in the future?

If she doesn't continue, will her work be affected?

Can you give her the same life as before?

4. Can she accept it?

Is she thinking of scraping some money from the boss while she is young and marrying you when she is old?

6. If it is mentioned in Article 5, do you mind being Kai Zi? If not, do you mind your girlfriend selling herself out like this?

People who come to live? Although there are many such girls!

7. Can you guarantee that she will share joys and sorrows with you in the future? Can you promise that she won't do anything out of line?

What?

8. What if she keeps selling for some reason?

Finally, under 1, there are actually many mistresses, and many employees seduce their bosses because they are easy to get ahead. This is the relationship of interests, and many of them are because life is lonely and empty, just because they have physiological needs! How can the boss of a company live without any communication skills? Of course, it is also easy for women, so such men are often very attractive! Of course, there must be a strong woman behind a strong man. When a man needs a woman, a mistress appears! It not only meets the needs of physiology, but also meets the needs of interest! Everyone knows that the relationship between beds is not so easy to maintain. After a long time, this kind of bed relationship without love will be born, and the only drawback is that it will end without results. Therefore, in order to seek a result and plan her future, a woman will find a man to marry while her charm is still there, and you are just caught by her! All he wants is a family! Although the interest relationship is gone, the physiological needs can still be met. I don't know how strong my husband will be in the future. Take a gamble on the economy! Hmm. How interesting

Besides, a friend who really loves life and happiness, how do you know it is life? Many people get married for seven years, which is true love. After seven years of itching ... they started arguing! Start other strange things! Hehe, I don't know what you think? Do you ask me if I believe in true love? I tell you I believe it, but maybe for a moment, maybe for a lifetime, maybe I can control this time! Maybe not!

Tail870805 This friend, most men may think the same as this friend. In short, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Why unrequited love male * * * flowers! There are many wild flowers on the roadside! Isn't it?

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Finally, the most serious problem is that you can't give up your relationship for two years, can you? She also knows that everyone will hesitate! So, you're trapped! You said you gave up your old job. You tried to prove that you loved her. Does she love you? Did you ask? I hope she is not acting! However, you are really strong. You didn't know she was her boss's mistress? Hehe, this is not good!

It's time to answer again. I've finished analyzing it for you!

1. If you think it doesn't matter, then stick to it!

2. If you think that a few people can't accept it, but it can be solved through consultation, and you choose to trust her, then go on!

If more than half of the reasons make you feel unacceptable, then I suggest you break up, after all, if it is unacceptable.

If so, there will be many problems in the future, and cutting the gordian knot is the best way! Before going to bed!

If you all feel that there is a problem, then hesitation will only make you feel worse, no matter who you are, you will get the most.

Worse, that's all!

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All right, that's all.

I hope I can help you! Good luck!