I have always believed that my thoughts will not be hit in the face, however, I still hit the face. After a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend, I was a little contradictory but soon made up. I got the certificate in the Year of the Pig and held a lively wedding at the end of the year. I was five months pregnant at the wedding. When he took me home, I sent a circle of friends, eight words, but it was another guarantee of my happiness: "I only know that I will be happy." This is also a kind of trust in my object. Last year, I just graduated from college. On the wedding day, Jing Li's pre-sale new book "Persistence" just arrived at the destination on this day. I regard this special fate as an invisible providence arrangement.
In Jing Li's book, I have repeatedly read Jing Li's Talking about Love and Marriage, which is exactly what I need to learn now.
Teacher Jing Li's love seems to confirm each other in a few minutes. In fact, these few minutes are not easy, because behind them is Jing Li's consistent accomplishment. As her book says, what kind of soul mate do you want, then you should set an example first. From her persistence in writing and photography for ten years, I saw traces of her tenacity and book experience blessing in her. Presumably, Jing Li will have his own persistence and methods in dealing with love and marriage. Therefore, she had extraordinary courage and belief before meeting people with similar views.
Behind Jing Li's enviable love, I saw her wisdom. Temporary love is easy to get, but it takes wisdom to run a marriage. After reading Jing Li's words, I believe that she is a person who is good at discovering beauty, collecting beauty and recording beauty. For ordinary people, who will often think that flowers and plants can appreciate the beauty of life, just like a layman watching the excitement and an expert watching the doorway? I believe that in this pair of partners, Jing Li has her own set of wisdom. They are not always as calm as if there is no disagreement in the eyes of onlookers. But that both people can reflect on themselves. Two people will have impulses and contradictions more or less, especially in front of people who love each other, we are more likely to release our emotions without scruple, but not many people can handle their emotions rationally afterwards, so the contradictions intensified and finally broke up. In Jing Li's book, I see that Li Jing has a kind of introspection ability, a kind of consciousness to control her emotions, a kind of love for her partner and trust in her partner.
Just like at the end of the book, Jing Li's understanding of the word "companion": "companion" is half of a person, and "companion" refers to two equal and respectful people. Their hearts vibrate at the same frequency and their words are consistent, forming a whole, which is a partner. "It takes wisdom to have this understanding.
I always believe that the rose will wither, but if the owner often waters it and lets it live in a suitable environment, its vitality will last the longest. The same is true for marriage. It can't be said that two people can live in peace when they step into the threshold of marriage. Even if the previous love was praised, it would be a sigh sooner or later if both of them didn't know how to manage it well. Therefore, when we have experienced the baptism of time, we can still see each other's beauty in different periods and cherish and care for that beauty. I think this is love. Everyone has a different understanding of love, but the way to manage love should be the same. That is to spend the ups and downs or trivial life with the greatest sincerity and appreciation in each other's eyes.
I treat my marriage the same way. I also believe that my determination will not make me regret it.