This is the normal state of the university, just adapt. Everyone has his own different way to go. College is not the starting line for you and your classmates. Everyone has different goals and different positions. Some people want to muddle along, some want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, some go abroad, and some spend every day in the library, making it difficult to find peers. As an adult, you should learn to walk alone. After all, your classmates and friends will not accompany you for life. Accompany your partner all your life, not everything with you. It is enough to finish what you should do every day, chat with your roommate to relax in your spare time, or take the initiative to go out with people you know. Finding a small partner in a university is not as efficient and comfortable as being alone. This is the normal state of universities. Of course, I hope you can take the initiative and find a partner to relax with.