They call their boyfriends more than a dozen times a day, whether they are at work, driving or resting. If their boyfriends don't receive it, or just pick it up a little later, there may be a war.
They will repeatedly ask their boyfriends, "Do you love me?" Just answering "love" is not enough. They must know how much they love and how long they will love.
They may suddenly start sulking and ask her what's wrong, but she won't say anything, insisting that "if you love me, you should know why I'm angry";
They will regard every girl around their boyfriend as an imaginary enemy. If her boyfriend happens to sit next to a girl at a friend's dinner party, they will think it's okay to round them off. ...
I didn't have any emotional experience at that time. At most, I have several close girlfriends. In our daily life, they are all gentle and cheerful, and have nothing to do with "princess disease".
So I don't quite understand at the moment. Are there really so many clingy, willful and unreasonable girls in this world?
Later, one of my buddies fell in love with a girl who had known him for many years. They stayed together for a few months and then broke up.
My buddy came out for a drink with me, and he said, I really can't stand her princess disease.
"I watched a movie with her. When she came out of the cinema, she was calm and angry. I coaxed her for more than half an hour before she told me, because the bag I bought was only coke, not her favorite popcorn, and she thought I didn't pay attention to her-what's this called? "
To tell the truth, I was surprised at that time, because since I met this girl, she has always been kind and easy-going. Every time we play together, she is always taking care of others, like a sister. It is hard for me to imagine that she would be in such a completely opposite state in love.
It was also at that time that I realized that "princess disease" is not necessarily the personality label of a certain kind of girls, but another state that quite a few girls will show once they fall in love.
A few years later, after I met more girls and helped many girls solve their emotional problems, I understood this more:
The biggest problem for those "princess sick girls" is that after being labeled as lovers, they will think that it is understandable and forgivable to expect anything from each other.
They may get along with strangers and friends. If you don't fall in love with them, it's hard to find the other side of their personality.
What impressed me the most was my ex-girlfriend We were good friends at first, and her mind was very mature. I have always felt that getting along with her is a very relaxed and happy thing.
But since we got together, she started endless "work", forcing me to spend a lot of time with her, deleting all my female friends, and quarreling with me because of various trivial matters ... We were friends for more than a year, but our relationship only lasted for two months.
Miraculously, after breaking up, we resumed our friendship. She is still the independent, intelligent and considerate girl, and we get along easily and happily.
Talking about past feelings, she said to me frankly:
"If you are friends, of course. But because we are lovers, I hope you will sacrifice yourself and give everything for me. I am a missing part of your body. That's good. This is called love. "
I actually feel a little distressed when I hear her words.
I think of a psychological theory that children before the age of one are exploitative in their needs for their mothers. They will cry, demand and occupy all their time, energy and attention, because they have not adapted to being separated from their mothers. They are using this way to prove that they and their mothers are still one.
When my girlfriend said "She is a part of me", I realized that no matter how mature and sensible she looks, she is just a baby in love, looking for a warm mother through constant willfulness and "acting".
Strangers and ordinary friends can't give it to her, she can only count on love. She once believed that I could do it, but I let her down.
From then on, I understood her and all the "princess sick girls":
Maybe their childhood didn't get proper care and care, and they didn't have a sense of love and security, so they will try their best to make up for the regrets of infancy in the long rest of their lives.