1 likes to complain

American President Franklin said:

"I have never seen a diligent and honest person who gets up early and complains about his bad fate. Some people do things, no matter what the result is,

Always dissatisfied, like to complain. Bowing can not only solve their inner depression, but also influence the people around them and make others want to stay away from him. . Most people who like to complain have low emotional intelligence and bad fate; People with high emotional intelligence seldom complain.

Open your mouth.

People with low emotional intelligence speak without thinking, regardless of good words or bad words, and say what they think. They never thought about what their words would bring to each other, but only felt that they were telling the truth. Such people must pay attention to what to say and what not to say.

Otherwise, if you offend people because you are outspoken, you will lose more than you gain.

3 superior to others in language.

You say one word, I'll say another. If you scold me, I'm sure I'll curse even harder. If you put up with me, I will put up with it. No matter relatives, friends, colleagues, the next wish will not let the other side take advantage of the language, such people will not have real heart-to-heart people.

4 will not refuse

A person never knows how to refuse, and often helps others to do all kinds of things, so his emotional intelligence is not very high. Because they are soft-hearted, they can never refuse other people's demands, thinking that this will affect the relationship.

But in fact, the more painful it is, the more I keep doing things I don't like. Learn to refuse, don't care about others, just be happy.

5 like to interrupt others and talk too much.

Some people always like to interrupt others' conversation.

Talk to yourself,

Whether the other person has finished talking or not,

If you want to listen to your heart.

Even if the other party doesn't say anything, he will be unhappy in his heart. Such people are actually very rude and don't know how to respect others.

6 Too many jokes.

I have a colleague around me, and I get angry when I joke about him.

But he can joke with others regardless of the occasion.

If someone is angry, he will say, "I'm kidding." As for being so narrow-minded? " .

Although he is not a bad person,

But joking with others never considers the consequences.

Makes people reluctant to contact him.

7 can't control emotions

* In life, the most striking feature of people with low emotional intelligence.

I just can't control my emotions,

It is often easy to lose your temper with others, which makes the relationship between the two sides stiff.

Such people are not only prone to depression,

It is also easy to irritate others, leading to bad interpersonal relationships and breakdown.

Don't listen to other people's criticism

In the face of criticism from others, I will say "Stop it" and "I know all this". They won't listen to other people's criticism, they will think that what you said is wrong, or they will think that you said it because you are dissatisfied with yourself, and they won't feel that they are wrong at all.

Be an early riser.

When everyone was afraid to say anything, he was the first to stand up.

When he takes responsibility, he will also take responsibility.

He himself said that for the sake of justice and loyalty, it is actually because of his low emotional intelligence that he has always been willing to be an early bird.

10 is ungrateful

For others to help themselves, not only do not know how to be grateful, but also take it for granted and continue to ask for it.

Such people are often low in emotional intelligence, selfish, ungrateful, and will continue to ask for it.

Think only of yourself, regardless of others.