1. Introduce yourself to your sister.
A person's personality and hobbies are the easiest to know, because everyone has the thinking of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages. You should understand one thing: everyone has shortcomings. Then if you only talk about your advantages when chatting with her, it will only make her think that you are a rude person; And if you introduce yourself a little, she will think you are arrogant or arrogant. You don't know what she wants when you chat with her; Maybe after others help her figure out the goal, she thinks it is this goal, which is why we must introduce ourselves when chatting with girls: "Hello": "I am, my name is; I met a girl online before, and now you have talked about it several times. " "What is your occupation and hobbies?" "I have never been exposed to these aspects before!"
2. What are the preparations for asking your sister out?
In fact, it is to prepare for the date, but it should be prepared according to the sister's personality and psychology. The preparation here should not be like a conversation before a date. If you want me to ask her out, she will. But to make her feel accepted and like you. The "acceptance" here can be prepared from the following aspects: The first aspect is to make girls feel that you are a person who is willing to give her a sense of security, and you can also show your gentle and generous side. The second aspect is that you must not ask too much of her, for example, if you see her in a bad mood on the road, buy more things she likes to eat for her; Stop for a few more seconds when you see her crossing the street and want to stop, so that she doesn't worry too much; After hearing about your date, all the girls want to ask when you can eat or something.
3. About the effect
The purpose of dating is to make two people get along more comfortably, so what you have to do is to tell each other the purpose of dating before asking your sister out: you need to exercise yourself as much as I do. For example, you can ask me out for coffee or go shopping for dinner; You can also invite me to a lecture or something. If you can say that the purpose of dating is to enhance the feelings between two people and enhance understanding, it can help your friend get rid of being single as soon as possible! It can also make you more valuable in love!
Prepare for work
If your date is shy, you can greet her the first time you meet her. If your date is lively and cheerful, you can ask her to pick you up. If you are a new friend you just met, you can also create some small surprises; If you are a stranger on the first date, you can have dinner and chat together, and go out to play together. If it's your first date with a girl alone, or just a simple date, then you should be prepared in advance: first, you invite her out for dinner and chat; If you date a girl alone! You should also prepare something for her in advance to show your gentlemanly demeanor or make her look more comfortable; If you want her to think that you care more about yourself or her than usual, then you should be prepared to spend more time alone with her to show that you care more about her.