Generally speaking, it varies from person to person. If you like the lower berth, you'd better be near the balcony. If you want to be quiet, you'd better choose the upper berth. But for most people, the upper berth is far better than the lower berth. This is because the lower berth is not conducive to neatness, and people who usually come to the dormitory will give priority to the things in the lower berth, so in this case, sleeping in the upper berth is better than sleeping in the lower berth. Not everyone can live in harmony in the dormitory, and dormitory problems are very common. There are four people, six people, eight people or more in a dormitory. It is impossible for everyone to have the same personality. When you get to college, it is likely that your roommates come from all corners of the country, and their living habits and values may be different. Therefore, solving the problem of dormitory harmony is the first priority.

The first step is to learn tolerance. Because dormitory members come from all corners of the country, their family backgrounds are different and their habits are different. Therefore, we should understand and tolerate roommates' habits, even minor faults. You can't have conflicts because you are not used to it, and you feel that you can't stay in the dormitory. Roommates' living habits, eating habits, and even speaking accents may be different. You should learn to adapt without affecting your normal life. If it really affects your life, you should raise it politely and amicably, and there can be no conflict.

Second, pay attention to the influence that your behavior may bring to your roommate. For example, if you like to stay up late but the lights will affect your roommate's sleep, dim the brightness of the lights and pay attention to quiet activities at night. After all, there are so many people in a dormitory, so we should be considerate and take care of each other, and we should not influence others because of our own enjoyment.

Third, don't speak ill of others. Everyone comes from kind children, and no one can deliberately do something that everyone doesn't like. So if some of his behaviors affect you, just be polite. Some people don't speak ill of this person to his face, but speak ill of this person behind his back, which is the worst behavior. Think about it, he may not know why you hate him, but he may pay attention after you say it. And if you talk about him behind his back, it will give others a bad impression that you like to talk about people behind their backs. Second, you still have to put up with that person's small mistakes. Third, if he knows that you talk about him behind his back, your relationship is likely to deteriorate.

Fourth, learn to help each other. It is not easy for everyone to study without their parents. Therefore, when life and feelings are not satisfactory, roommates can best help him. Everyone lives together like a family and should love each other. If you are in any trouble, your roommate should be your first thought, and your roommate is likely to become a good friend. So if your roommate has any problems, care more and help more.