Moliere once said, "Love is a great teacher, which teaches us to turn over a new leaf". College love can effectively help college students' outlook on life and initial maturity. Love is not a person's effort, but two people in the same boat, sharing weal and woe in life, and in order to maintain this process, the sense of responsibility of both sides is very important.
Before entering the society or university campus, college students grow up under the care of their parents and relatives. It is inevitable that they will rely on and obey their parents and relatives, and it is difficult to form their own sense of responsibility. However, in an independent love process, college students have to face the situation of self-reliance, leave their parents' control, make their own choices and live independently. At this time, they need a positive guidance to control the direction of their sense of responsibility, and at the same time, this guidance can not come from external experience and models.
In the process of this love, college students need to learn how to be responsible for their lover and others, how to understand the sense of responsibility, and how to shoulder their due responsibilities, which is also conducive to the rapid maturity of college students' psychological level.
(2) Love can be the motivation for college students to improve themselves.
When entering the campus for the first time, college students will inevitably feel at a loss or even confused about their long-term self-control time. Therefore, most people often spend their leisure time by playing games, watching variety shows and brushing Tik Tok. Some people with strong adaptability will arrange to go to the library after school or do some technical study and part-time activities by themselves. However, except for a few college students with firm beliefs or strong self-control, autonomous learning is difficult to persist for a long time. Love can be used as a substitute for boring study life, adding a touch of relaxation and sweetness to heavy study tasks. By encouraging each other and setting goals for each other, the two sides can make the boring learning process easier to stick to.
Secondly, the essence of love is not a simple physical attraction, but more a * * * sound generated by the similarity of thinking levels. Therefore, love will make college students pay more attention to the improvement of their own ideological and moral cultivation. For a bright future, college students can have the idea of self-improvement. This is the powerful internal motivation of self-improvement brought by love to college students, which will promote both sides to benefit each other and the future.
(3) Being in love helps to improve college students' interpersonal skills.
Whether it is sweet talk in love or the pursuit before love, it is essentially a kind of interpersonal behavior. Love can help college students learn how to get along with the opposite sex better, and improve their disorderly analysis ability of people and things in society by controlling the psychological similarities and differences between men and women. College students' love behavior can be regarded as a precious opportunity to temper themselves, which is helpful to cultivate their abilities in expression, analysis and choice, and to improve their interpersonal skills in an all-round way.
At the same time, in the process of love, both parties will inevitably bring each other into their own communication circle, and this kind of communication behavior will inevitably involve more interpersonal relationships. Through a series of communication processes, the interpersonal communication ability will be improved again.
my love
The content written above is inevitably somewhat academic. Tell me my love story.
My first love happened in college. To be exact, we were classmates in high school. For some reason, we just got together after the college entrance examination, so we will face the test of long-distance love as soon as we start school. Before that, I didn't have the experience of falling in love, and I didn't learn how to love someone and how to get along with someone actively. But it is precisely because I fell into a relationship, and this relationship is a long-distance relationship that everyone is talking about that I really realized what a sense of responsibility is, and I really felt its importance. For me, the sense of responsibility I need to do is to keep every promise, be a little lucky, surprise, choose and be firm ... In the most difficult time, I also had the idea of giving up this difficult relationship and finding a girl I can meet every day on the university campus to enjoy the present, but this completely violates my belief in the sense of responsibility, so even if it is difficult, busy and unrecognized, my girlfriend and I will keep going.
In terms of benefits, apart from the relatively empty thing mentioned in the last paragraph, it is more practical that falling in love is really a very happy thing. In the days when I am in a different place, my happiest thing is that I can video talk with my girlfriend for several hours every day and take every train to visit my girlfriend at home. My heart is full of great joy, maybe it is my love brain, but love itself is a very young and happy thing.