"Image" refers to a specific shape or gesture that can arouse ideological or emotional activities, and it reflects the overall impression of a country, a product or a person. "Self-image" is our psychological image of ourselves at any time and place, the way we look at ourselves, and the way we know and feel ourselves. It refers to our hearts, not necessarily the way others look at us from the outside. Our self-feeling is an internal filter between us and the "outside world", through which we can examine and evaluate our life and performance. It determines our belief in what we do, what we say and feel, involves our motivation, perception and attitude towards people and things, and affects and is influenced by things around us.

Mo Wei Ming pointed out that the biggest discovery of psychological research in this century is the discussion about self-image. It turns out that in the process of growing up, people gradually form an image of themselves to define themselves and evaluate their values, intelligence, personality, character, skills and appearance. When the self-image is fixed, it is not easy to change. According to this image, living a high life, all kinds of choices are based on this image, and I am sure it is the only way. It can be seen that a good personal image is of great significance to personal growth and life development. College students are the pride of the times and the pillars of national construction. They represent vitality and youth. They are full of wisdom and strength. Their development is a banner of our whole society, and their image represents our future. Creating a good personal image will greatly promote the development of contemporary college students in all aspects. So how do we shape the self-image of college students? First, let's look at the factors that affect college students' self-image:

(A) factors affecting college students' self-image

1, family Family is full of care and infinite tolerance, which often encourages you, cares for you and supports you, giving you confidence is conducive to shaping a good self-image, on the contrary, it has a negative impact on shaping self-image. A harmonious, orderly and warm family will have a subtle and far-reaching influence on the growth of college students, which is undoubtedly of great significance to self-shaping a good personal image in the process of individual growth.

2. Interpersonal communication. College students are in the ivory tower. Facing the communication with teachers, classmates and friends, they often form different psychological impressions of themselves. This impression is based on the success or failure of daily communication. If communication is chaotic or even fails, you will lose confidence in your communication, which will affect your image and have doubts about yourself. On the contrary, extensive communication, pleasant communication and successful performance will make you more full of strength and self-confidence and establish your good personal image.

3. appearance. In many cultures today, the most respected personal characteristic is physical attractiveness. Television advertisements spend millions of dollars every year trying to persuade us to buy clothes and cosmetics to make ourselves attractive, which is sending a message: if a person looks good, he will feel good about himself, and if a person fails to meet such social standards, he will feel rejected. So how do we shape the self-image of college students?

(B) How to shape the self-image of college students

1, pay attention to the language. Language is the basic tool of human communication. People exchange ideas, transmit information and express their feelings through language. Civilized language sets up the image of human civilization, eloquent language sets up the image of human eloquence, humorous language sets up the image of human humor, and hypocritical language sets up the image of human hypocrisy.

2. Be polite. Manner refers to a person's style, appearance, manners and attitude, and also refers to the explicit expression of a person's spirit, temperament and personality. Therefore, demeanor actually includes mental state, appearance etiquette, behavior attitude and manners. It actually reflects a person's morality, character, temperament, knowledge, attitude and so on. Some people say, "Elegant manners are an unimpeded passport to a friend's heart." This is a "passport" that every college student friend who is eager to succeed in choosing a career deserves.

3. Pay attention to the instrument. Instrument is an important aspect of college students' self-image. Appearance image mainly refers to a person's appearance and figure. It is an intuitive external image composed of individual physiological characteristics and clothing. Beauty in appearance is the natural beauty of human beings. People with beautiful appearance won the first chance of success, because people in modern society are used to looking at, evaluating and choosing people by the standard of beauty.

4. Pay attention to specific behaviors. When recruiting, the job-seeking image of college students seems subjective, which is the subjective impression of recruiters, but it is actually objective and the effect of college students' behavior. From the physiological point of view, behavior is the action made by various parts of the body, including the face, which can be conscious or unconscious. People's gestures and smiles will leave a lasting impression and produce unexpected effects. People's behavior and actions should not be taken lightly.

Perfect image can make people fight in the torrent of society, and healthy posture can make you soar in the vast sky. The times have given us college students a new mission, and the new mission needs new quality and new image. Believe in yourself and overcome everything. Let us shape ourselves in perfection and succeed in self-confidence.

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