In college, we had a pair of classmates who were very optimistic about us. One is in Nanjing and the other is in Henan. The gap between family conditions is not small. Men have good family conditions, while women are worse. But that girl is beautiful. The boy treated her well for four years. As a result, after graduating from college, girls dislike that boys' families are not rich enough. It cost him hundreds of thousands of bride price to buy a house and a car in Henan. The boy's family in Nanjing is very angry. So when falling in love in college, it is best for two people to reach an agreement on how far to go. If one person wants to go all the way to marriage, and the other person just wants to find a person he likes to talk about a love affair, and break up after graduation if he can't be together, regardless of the consequences, then family problems must be considered.

The distance between home and conditions can determine many things, such as a person's consciousness and his vision. Many rural students in our class don't like this first-tier city where I live. They think that the pace of life is so fast, the house is so expensive and the price is high. Why do you want to live here? If you have a car, just drive an electric car. Why buy more than 1000 clothes that can be worn for tens of dollars? Students with better family conditions feel that they don't need to buy a lot of clothes, but they should wear brands, not just eat, and the nutrition of a meal should be comprehensive. Laoganma's diet with steamed bread is unreasonable.

I remember one of my high school classmates married a young man from the countryside. She gave birth to a child, and when she was confined, her mother-in-law only bought apples to eat. At that time, she wanted to eat cherries, which cost more than 70 yuan a catty. I think if she is my daughter-in-law, it is understandable to buy her something that will make her happy, and she happens to be working out. Her mother-in-law said, why do you want to eat so expensive fruit? Apples are good things. Why don't you eat them? Therefore, different family conditions can determine the level and vision of two people. If it is not at the same level, it will be far from it, and it will be difficult to go on in the future. It is not that people with poor family conditions must have poor eyesight, but this situation is relatively rare. It is not enough to maintain love and marriage just because of pure love in college. In the past, people always said that finding a partner should be "suitable for each other". Although some of them are too rigid, it is not unreasonable.

If you just want to fall in love in college, regardless of the pursuit of that kind of beauty in the future, the family gap will not have such a big impact, but the impact is still there. Just like my classmates and boyfriends go out to buy food. She took a box of Oreos, and the boy said, put it down, it's only a little over six dollars. Didn't we take a box of mung bean cakes? So in my opinion, it is really a problem that the family gap is too big. Whether it is simple love or long-term development, family will be considered.