First, curiosity follows suit. Nowadays, college students are young, curious and like to chase fashion, so they also have the motivation to follow suit and live together. I think it's fashionable for others to live together, so I'll live together. Among them, conformity and convergence account for a large proportion. W, a freshman boy, comes from a remote village that is not rich, but the young man has excellent academic performance and looks handsome. He felt a sense of loss when he saw those students whose grades were worse than himself and whose conditions were weaker than himself found girlfriends to live together and live the same life as a young couple. At a class reunion, the students just teased him that he didn't have a cohabiting girlfriend. Unable to stand the ridicule of his classmates, he immediately found a girl in the class, bought simple furniture and daily necessities, and they lived together. There are not a few students like W who think cohabitation is a fashion. The second is the psychology of eating, drinking and enjoying in time. In today's colleges and universities, the concept of "I don't care about eternity, but I want to have it once" is still popular. No matter whether two people are in love or not, no matter whether they live together or not, most people have cohabiting partners who hit it off. Live together for a few days, and live together for a while. Because boys and girls with this mentality live together rashly without any mental preparation and emotional foundation, they usually get together early and leave late. Y is a lively and cheerful girl who pursues fashion and personality, and is not very convergent emotionally. Listen to her: "Other girls can live with boys, so can I." As for how long we can live together, I don't care. "With this mentality, she tried to dig a boy from the Foreign Languages Department. Both of them have good family conditions. Girl y suggested that boys live together for nothing, and boys certainly welcome it. Without such emotional foundation and psychological preparation, I felt bored after living together for three months and soon parted ways. Their situation accounts for 1/3 of college students' cohabitation ratio. The third is the psychology of relieving stress. Some college students are embarrassed by family conditions during their studies, but their tuition fees are too high and their life pressure is too high; Others are worried about employment and survival before graduation. Need decompression. But in the face of these pressures, it is difficult for them to adjust themselves, so it is not uncommon for them to try to relieve the pressure and buffer their emotions by living together. H, a male student majoring in mechanical engineering in a key university, and J, a female student studying Chinese, both come from other provinces with average family conditions. They think they can't afford the things they want to buy on weekdays, the clothes they want to wear, and worry about their living expenses every month. Since we are fellow villagers, we help each other in life. After discussion, they simply moved in together. College students who live together like them generally have obvious geographical factors, either in the same place or high school classmates. It is natural to come together. This situation accounts for the largest proportion of college students living together. The fourth is vanity. It is popular among college students that "cohabitation is anyone's honor", so no matter boys or girls, some people pursue cohabitation objects with good family conditions or superior family and political background. Boy Z, whose father is the county magistrate of a northern province, has a long line of girls chasing him on weekdays, but none of them are worthy of him. In his mind, looking for a girlfriend should at least find a suitable one. Then he took a fancy to a girl in the class. Of course, this girl is also very background. Her father is the deputy secretary of the municipal party Committee of a prefecture-level city in a province. The two of them live alone, carefree. They spend a lot of money together and live in a more advanced place than ordinary people's wedding rooms. They can be together because of their own good conditions and excellent family conditions, but after a long time, they will often quarrel or even fight because of trivial matters, because both sides are self-centered and do not give in to each other. After a fierce quarrel and fight, the two parted ways. The fifth is the psychology of temporary care. This kind of psychology is not uncommon among cohabiting college students. In the survey, we found that many students from disadvantaged families often feel inferior and hold their heads up because of their own conditions. Two people with the same background come together, sympathize with each other and help each other, forming the psychology of temporary care, so that they have help and dependence. Although the cohabitation between them is relatively poor and unremarkable, it can also be very interesting. T from rural Hebei and R from rural Henan, although doing well in the class, are poor, so they have always been silent and have a strong sense of inferiority. They came together, because they were in the same boat, and there was almost no quarrel in their cohabitation. In the eyes of classmates, although life is poor, the days together are happy.