First, the first meaning of college lies in yourself, not the teacher.
The so-called university just lets you know that what kind of person you want to be in the future depends entirely on yourself. Your own life is your own decision, and others can't give it to you. You must never expect someone to pull you out of the mud. To heal the wounded and rescue the dying, we must first learn to save ourselves.
I have heard too many complaints about the irresponsibility of university teachers. To tell the truth, I occasionally complain about a teacher's teaching quality, but I know from my heart that college learning lies in self-study. The university teacher is just a guide, just like a stepping stone, just to open a door for you. As for what is in the cracks, you need to explore it yourself.
University teachers are not as strict as junior high school teachers, asking you what to do with a three-foot ruler in their hands. He won't ask you to find out like a junior high school teacher, and he won't care about your grades. None of these university teachers can.
The university teacher seems a little unkind. Maybe they just want to polish you well in advance, cultivate your awareness of self-education and self-victory in such a cruel way, and then send you confidently and boldly to the society.
Liao Yimei said in "A Clumsy Life Like Me": "School can't teach you the outlook on life, nor can it teach you the expression. These things can't be taught, but college is very important. College is the most important period in your life, because many of your things are formed in college, but you can't expect anyone to educate you or get inspiration from anyone. The most essential thing is self-education. "
The purpose of college education is not only to let you learn professional knowledge, but more importantly, to let you know the degree of knowledge mastery and how much effort you have made.
The significance of going to college is not to let you find out how irresponsible university teachers are and how "casual" university education is, but to let you realize how important you are.
Second, the university can't teach you to be a man or to be worldly, but it has taught you to be yourself.
Universities are places where talented people come forth in large numbers. You often feel as small as an ant and out of place with others. It makes you constantly question and deny yourself. But in this process of constant self-doubt, what it wants you to understand is that no matter how insignificant and humble you are, you should be yourself, don't get lost and don't be humble.
To tell the truth, I often envy those talented women who are proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and think that they are attracting attention and have a magnetic field that makes people fascinated and admired. I used to want to be them, but with the maturity of my heart, I gradually understand that I can't be others, I can only be myself, and I am getting better and better on the road to becoming myself.
Maybe, I can't play a musical instrument, I can't finish a dance, I can't practice a kind of calligraphy, but so what. I still envy others, but I can only be myself.
Don't sell yourself short just because others are glamorous.
I will not give up my efforts because of the ordinary smallness.
We can't be others, because others have done it, and we can only be ourselves. "Being yourself" is to let you follow your heart and accept your own ordinary.
Third, the university makes you understand that loneliness is a compulsory course, and it is a very advanced course from adapting to loneliness to enjoying it.
"A high school for a group of people, a university for one person." This sentence is quite puzzling, but it is true. Accustomed to a dormitory in high school * * * using daily necessities, accustomed to a group of people getting together to gossip, accustomed to pumping back various test sites. You can go to college alone, eat alone, go shopping alone, review alone and talk alone.
It's hard to accept this from high school to college. But "loneliness" is a compulsory course for you to go to college. As for the final grade and high grade point, it depends on your self-cultivation ability.
In college, being gregarious is an ability, but not being gregarious doesn't mean you are a freak. Never put other people's standards on yourself, it will be very tired. Although loneliness is not something to show off, it is not shameful.
The so-called growth is the process from adapting to loneliness to enjoying loneliness.