Everyone will experience different life trajectories and experiences. In the face of life and society, either change the environment or adapt to it, otherwise you can only let the environment change yourself! The road of life is not smooth, but full of challenges and confusion. Every day, I will experience all kinds of people and things, as well as others' comments on myself and my own views on others! It's hard to hear my roommate speak ill of himself, either because he is too confident or because the other person maliciously slanders him. In addition, he may also have his own shortcomings and self-esteem! If discomfort can't solve the problem, it will hurt your self-esteem and let you know that interpersonal relationships are complex and changeable, and it is not so easy to be the perfect person in your mind. If you trust each other too much, you don't need to be sad because others have caught you making irresponsible remarks. It is reasonable to pay for your mistakes, and being sad is in exchange for a principle of dealing with people and the golden mean!