"The pace of today's society is getting faster and faster, and the difficulty in employment has become a common problem faced by college students, which has also greatly affected their psychological state." Jiang Guilan said that college students' age is an important stage of growth, and they will certainly encounter various problems. The key is to see how to alleviate them. Psychological problems should be sparse but not blocked.

Behind the psychological problems of college students, it reflects the lack of psychological quality education in the current education system. "Many teachers and parents think that quality education is the cultivation of music or other specialties besides intellectual education, but they don't realize that psychological quality is also an important aspect of quality education." Jiang Guilan said.

On the other hand, the improvement of economic conditions has also caused teenagers' ability to delay enjoyment to become worse and worse. If a little demand is not met, it will breed emotional problems. "Our generation had almost nothing before middle age. Now some children don't want it, and parents still force it into their hands. Children have lived in honeypots since childhood and lack the enthusiasm to earn returns by their own efforts. "

In this regard, experts suggest that in order to cultivate children's good psychological quality, we should start from an early age and cultivate children's ability to delay enjoyment and resist setbacks. In the process of children's growth, we can constantly stimulate their fighting spirit by setting goals for them.

There is a psychological problem, what should I do? Jiang Guilan said that during the consultation process, she found that most of the college students who came to see a doctor and consult came by themselves. Many parents don't realize that their children have psychological problems, and even prevent them from seeing a psychologist. She reminded parents that psychological problems should not be blocked, and most tragedies come step by step from light to heavy, so it is necessary to intervene early to prevent problems before they happen.

"For college students, on the one hand, we should put down our bodies appropriately. Don't think that they are the best students and won't fail. They should form the habit of being down-to-earth and strive to create a better future. On the other hand, everyone should not avoid mental illness and psychological problems, and should actively find ways to alleviate things. It is not shameful to have psychological problems. "