1. Face up to your own reasons and don't be anxious. Anxiety is no different from solving things, but it will make things worse. Therefore, it is imperative to calm down and solve the problem, not to be anxious. It is what we need to do to sort out our emotions and solve problems without any emotions.
2. Is it a friend's liking to distinguish his liking? You know, there are many definitions and degrees of like. If friends can chat well and have fun together without too much heavy psychological burden, it is actually normal. It is normal for the same sex to attract each other, and there is not much psychological pressure.
3. Like a companion. In fact, homosexuality has been popularized in many countries, and even many States in the United States have widely legalized homosexuality, so there is nothing difficult to talk about. No one is a monster, and everyone has the right to pursue his own happiness. Whether the sexual orientation is male or female, it is mainly how you feel in a relationship. If you fully feel love and tolerance in a relationship, keep discovering yourself and making progress, then this relationship is benign and worth maintaining. As long as you are happy with each other, whether you are gay or straight.
4. Ask a psychologist for advice. Many people's concept of gender is still vague, and they don't even know whether their behavior is just, normal and reasonable or an unreasonable questioning mechanism. At this time, you can ask some professionals to answer. Communicate well, don't be afraid of medical treatment, but solve your own problems and root them out in the bud. Professional psychological counseling and suggestions will solve our doubts better and faster.
5. Communicate with another girl who is liked. We can exchange our ideas with each other, see what they think, whether they have the same problems as us, and see if we are both in a quagmire. Only by mastering each other's thoughts and dynamics can we solve the problem better. It is worth noting that it is not impossible for RMB to be liked by everyone, so we should face up to this problem and not become self-denying and self-efficacy is extremely low because the other party doesn't like it. We should firmly believe that we are the best, give ourselves full affirmation, and at the same time give each other more digestion and time to further exchange ideas, get to know each other and solve problems together.
6. We are not bad children: sexual orientation is not a disease. We should face up to our marriage and love, and understand that we are not a bad boy or sick. The present society is an open, pluralistic and inclusive society. In fact, as long as you like it, you feel comfortable. People don't have to live so hard.