Problem description:

I am a cadre engaged in personnel organization. I have small officials, with leaders above, clerks below, and leaders of subordinate units. I'm tired of dealing with these personnel relations! I often offend people. After the institutional reform, there are more staff and fewer people. Often confused, easy to offend people, leading to interpersonal disharmony. For this, I am very painful. I would appreciate it if someone could give me some advice.

Analysis:

I am a volunteer. I am younger than you, and my working hours are very short. But not long ago, I read a very enlightening passage in a magazine. I hope you can get rid of your troubles and don't care too much about other people's opinions. The poseurs in this society enjoy it the most.

I can't remember all this, but in a word, interpersonal relationship is really a university question. Don't improve everything, just let nature take its course. You should have a degree in your heart. Master this standard, and you won't feel tired yourself.

One meter raises a thousand people. Everyone eats the same thing, but they are different people.

There are roughly three kinds of people in interpersonal communication: first, people who are kind to you. Second, people who misinterpret you. Third, irrelevant people.

For the first kind of people, they are grateful to you and you can be their teacher and friend.

The second kind of person is the most disturbing person. For this kind of person, you only need to know who he is. You don't have to argue with him, let alone worry about yourself. Don't expect everyone to like you and be good to you, but remember that one more friend is not enough, and one more enemy is too much.

For the third person, you have no interest, you should be kind to each other, which means you have a chance to become the first person.

Hehe, I just want to help you. I hope you can be happy. I think the most important thing to work in your office is to keep your mouth shut. If you talk too much, you lose.

You should learn to smile and relax.

Come on, senior ~