The first reason: "economic independence, it is difficult to bear the responsibility of supporting the family." At present, single young people in rural areas are mainly post-90s. Most of them grew up under the careful care of their parents, and they didn't suffer much, and their education level was not high. Most of them have junior high school education, and they have no skills, so they can only do odd jobs or work in factories. However, even if they work, it is often difficult for them to settle down. They spend three days fishing and two days drying their nets, so they have not learned skills, which leads to their failure to learn skills. The second reason: personality defects, many single young people are addicted to games, brushing videos and having fun, but in reality it is difficult to communicate with others, and they always care about their subjective feelings and ignore each other's interests or wishes. Personality is a double-edged sword. If your personality can make others feel comfortable, it will naturally attract the opposite sex. If your character hurts others, it's strange that your love doesn't fail. A friend who is engaged in matchmaking told me: "Some older young men used to be male chauvinists. They are self-righteous, have no manners and feelings, and will not communicate from the woman's point of view. Every blind date ends in failure. " "Some young people, you help him point out the problem, they not only don't appreciate you, but hate you. How do they find a girlfriend like this? " The friend said with emotion. The third reason: their parents are also relatively backward, thinking that building a house in the village and putting on a banquet to spend some bride price will be all right. In fact, it has been more than 40 years since the reform and opening up, and women's thoughts, including their parents, have changed a lot. Traditional rural houses can no longer meet the needs of women. The fourth reason: the current rural women's economic independence and the change of their concept of choosing a spouse. In the past, traditional rural women stayed at home, took care of their husbands, educated their children, and lived a life where men were the masters and women were the masters. What about now? Women can go out to work and earn their own money without relying on men at all. Once they are financially independent, they have higher requirements for choosing a spouse, hoping to find a suitable partner both materially and spiritually. Secondly, the education level of rural women has been greatly improved compared with the past. Most of them accepted the nine-year compulsory system, and some of them went to high school and technical school to go to college. This is completely different from rural girls before 2000. They can be economically independent, and the improvement of their cultural level has transformed rural girls. Therefore, in terms of mate selection, they hope that the man can show his excellent side in all aspects.