Later, when we were ready to get married, we told our parents, because my parents thought that the place where I got married was a little far away, which was never a special reason. But I think it's different. I haven't seen my daughter for years, and the traffic is very developed. So even if my parents have some opinions, I still married without hesitation.
When I first got married and contacted my mother-in-law, I thought she was ok, and it was nothing too bad for me. But after I lost my child, I found the change amazing.
Especially when I was going to have a baby, her mother heard that natural delivery would save a lot of money than caesarean section, and told the doctor that I would have a natural delivery here. However, after the doctor's physical examination, according to my current physical condition, I still suggested caesarean section, but my mother-in-law just disagreed.
At that time, my husband was still in the field, and no one could sign it, so I had to let my mother-in-law sign it, because she always insisted on being good to her grandson. He was kept in the delivery room for several hours, and finally his amniotic fluid broke. The doctor said that if I don't have an operation, I don't think the baby will survive. Her mother reluctantly agreed. After this incident, it left a deep hurt in my heart, and I have been treating my mother-in-law since then.
Later, after the baby was born, I had to stay in the hospital for a while, because my mother was too far away from us, and I couldn't catch up at that time. So my mother-in-law took care of me. But I am a woman who has just given birth, and my body is so weak. I made tomato and egg soup, which tastes like white water. I really can't drink. Finally, my mother-in-law said angrily, who hasn't given birth? Look how fragile you are. Don't drink.
When I was discharged from the hospital, the child was almost full moon, and my mother-in-law and I were different when taking care of the child. Some of her old ideas are really not suitable for raising children, and she strongly demands to listen to her. I said at that time, is this child mine or yours?
Do you know what my mother-in-law said? Is your child named after you or after our family? Most importantly, my husband's attitude really disappointed me. He is on my side as well as his mother's side.
Sometimes his mother did something wrong, but because I didn't want me to say it. I tried again and again in the middle, but what they did really made me feel that I was just a tool for their family to have children.
I really can't see my mother-in-law for a day now. Actually, I also have the idea of divorce, but because my mother-in-law divorced, I really feel so lost? However, I can't get rid of this life, and I can't change my present situation. I'm really in pain.
If I really can't ease the relationship with his mother, I don't think I can stay in this marriage for long. Moreover, at present, my mother-in-law means to separate me from my husband. Her talons have now changed from interfering with me to interfering with my children, even my relationship with my husband. Do you think such a mother-in-law can make your's family relationship harmonious and beautiful?