"The newborn calf fell eighteen times." In the process of understanding and transforming the world, people will inevitably encounter setbacks. When faced with setbacks, people will express their views. Beethoven, who was deaf in both ears and struggled in Wan Qiang, seized the "throat of fate" and eventually became the "king of music"; There is Li Shangyin's eternal quatrain that "the blade comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold"; Li Shizhen failed in scientific research for three times, determined to study medicine, and wrote his masterpiece Compendium of Materia Medica. Grandson's foot, blood coagulation book; Yan Lu in the Song Dynasty made a surprising remark: "If you don't know the difference between obstacles and inversion, who can tell the rise and fall of Jin Mu"; More than 3,000 armour can swallow Wu Goujian; Sima Qian, who suffered from corruption and insisted on historical records.
With the rapid development of economy, the remarkable improvement of people's material level and the aggravation of social burden, people gradually ignore their own expectations, and a series of shocking scenes emerge one after another. The overlord of the West Chu, who was once a mighty mountain and river, was devastated by being besieged and ended in a tragic ending of "Wujiang River committing suicide"; Shu Qingchun, he chose to throw himself into the lake without looking at persecution; Looking forward to "facing the sea, bloom is warm in spring", Haizi committed suicide by lying on the track; Leslie Cheung, named after his brother, "directed" the tragic picture of Farewell My Concubine; Lonely and depressed Yu chose different ways to become an angel ... this heinous case is common, and we can't trace their whereabouts.
Nowadays, psychological problems have seriously eroded human health, especially teenagers. Hemingway once said, "Man can be defeated, but not defeated".
Life ended because of lovelorn love, family and social pressure. Fudan University poisoning case, Nanchang Airlines quarrel death case, carrion case ... As the social subject of 2 1 century, positive young people in the motherland, their psychological pressure exceeded their physical load, and finally embarked on the road of illegal crimes? The society is developing and people's living standards are improving, but who will be responsible for our healthy growth? Some people say that "the higher the educational background, the more abnormal the thought", so we have to admit that China's educational constitution is flawed. He unilaterally pursues the improvement of quantity, ignoring the qualitative change, and is seriously malnourished.
Mr. Liang Qichao once said: "If a teenager is strong, the country will be strong; If a teenager is weak, the country is weak; If teenagers are better than Europe, then China is better than Europe; If a teenager is better than the earth, then this country is better than the earth. " It is urgent to solve the psychological problems of teenagers. In 2003, the Ministry of Education and the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League officially put the annual 5. 25 was established as the "National Mental Health Day for College and Middle School Students", warning us that caring for others should start from ourselves so that everyone can grow up healthily. It is true that when facing a problem, don't avoid it passively, but face it actively and talk to people close to you, so that the problem can be solved better.
What should you do in the face of setbacks? Have you ever cried? Angry? Sad? I will never laugh it off.