There is a saying that a person's life is doomed, but the most paradoxical thing in life is that no one knows in advance that his life will stop at that moment.
There is a relative in my family. On Christmas Day, the family made an appointment to join in the fun outside. He felt dizzy when he left home. His family thought it was just high blood pressure and didn't take it seriously. He took antihypertensive drugs and told him to rest at home, while others went out to play.
This person is usually in good health, except for high blood pressure, there is nothing serious. But when his family came back, he fell to the ground alone, unconscious.
Sent to the hospital for examination, with cerebral hemorrhage. Because it was too late and the bleeding area was too large, although the doctor said the situation was not optimistic, the family insisted on treatment, surgery, hyperbaric oxygen chamber and all possible medical means.
Although I knew my father was in pain, my son said, "I can't get through without trying my best to save him." How can a good man be lost without it? " If we hadn't gone out to accompany him at that time, early detection and early treatment would not be as serious as it is now. "
My son spent more than 400 thousand yuan back and forth, and my father suffered a lot in bed in the first half of the year and finally died.
Is life fragile? Fragile! No one expected that such a serious thing happened just a few hours after going out.
Since life is so fragile, how can we live every day well?
First: don't be stingy to express your love.
My son never said I loved your father until his father died. China people are introverted, especially among their relatives, and always feel that it is natural to over-express. In fact, on the contrary, love needs to be expressed and let the other person know.
Don't forget to add "I love you" when you send your parents blessings on holidays.
Second: spend every day seriously.
There is a saying that the books you have read, the roads you have traveled and the people you have loved will all become your experiences and be reflected in you.
Take advantage of your youth and health, do what you want to do, and those who love you, don't choose to live a mediocre life at an age of struggle. Don't wait until you are old to look back, only to find that there seems to be nothing memorable and memorable in life.
If you want to leave no regrets in life, you must spend every day seriously, work hard and have a good rest when you rest.
Third: Don't let loving yourself become a slogan.
Stay up late with the most expensive eye cream. This is a true portrayal of many young people at present. They have to get through 12 every night and sleep less than 8 hours a day. Although the body sent out countless warning signals, they still chose to ignore them and felt that they were young and invincible.
We often say that we should love ourselves. We really love ourselves, not by eating a big meal or buying a beautiful dress as a reward today, but by taking care of our health.
Because the body is the capital of the revolution, when you have a healthy body, your life is possible, otherwise everything is empty talk.
Although life is fragile and impermanent, we should still have a positive and optimistic attitude, live every day seriously, live a full and meaningful life, and have no regrets even if life comes to an abrupt end one day.