1, advocating like-minded love. In love, college students should put their thoughts, beliefs and pursuits of * * * in the first place, and take kindness, noble sentiments and psychological harmony as the first criteria for choosing a spouse. Shakespeare once said: Love is not a sweet talk in the shade, a sweet talk in the Peach Blossom Garden, a faint cotton tear, or a powerful force, but the foundation of spiritual communication.

Therefore, the most important conditions for lovers to choose should be like-minded, with roughly the same ideological and moral qualities, career ideals and life interests. The lofty love between Marx and Yan Ni is based on common interests. It is precisely because of this that their love has withstood the test of ups and downs and spread into a story. As the pillars of the new era, college students' love view should be an organic combination of ideal, morality, obligation, career and sex.

2. Correctly handle the relationship between love and study. Love is beautiful, it is an important part of life, but it is not the whole of life. It should obey the cause and promote the development of the cause. 26. Only when a person has a successful career will the flower of love bloom more brilliantly and fragrant.

Therefore, college students should put learning first, straighten the relationship between love and study, don't spend all their precious time in love, and relax their study. Love without learning is like sowing seeds in the desert. Without solid foundation and soil, it will wither sooner or later. Only by combining love with learning can love have a strong and lasting vitality.

3. Understand that love is a kind of responsibility and dedication. College students in love should understand that love is not only a harvest, but also a responsibility and dedication. In social life, people have two responsibilities: one is personal responsibility to society; The other is the responsibility to family, parents, children, friends and lovers.

The second aspect of responsibility belongs to the nature of private life and is the weakest aspect of social intervention in life, which is mainly maintained by good moral cultivation and conscious responsibility. Because of this, it embodies a person's personality charm. Once college students enter the kingdom of love, they must have a strong sense of responsibility and dedication to work in order to obtain lofty love.

4. Be serious and single-minded in love. Love is a loving relationship between a man and a woman. This relationship contains its own unique feelings and obligations. Can only exist between two people who love each other, and no third party is allowed to intervene. Besides, love is not a game. Both sides should treat each other sincerely and treat themselves and each other realistically.

Countless facts have proved that cheating is cheating on love and is unhappy. In addition, once the two sides have established a love relationship, they should be faithful and inseparable; We can't be half-hearted and fickle. It's immoral for anyone to engage in love triangle and polyandry.

In the process of love, we should have more understanding, trust and tolerance, respect each other and make progress together. Love is the unity of mutual love. When two people fall in love, they both have their own independent personality and spiritual world. They can neither completely depend on each other nor demand complete possession of each other. In love, as in life, understanding, trust, honesty and tolerance are precious qualities.

Love often means giving, mutual understanding, mutual respect and mutual compromise. "There is no perfect person in the world", two people together is not a simple combination, we must accommodate each other; 2 1, love, you must accept everything about yourself, including his shortcomings.

6, correctly face the problems in the process of love. In the process of love, college students should have correct views and conform to the laws, regulations, rules and regulations of the state and the rules and regulations of the school. Avoid unnecessary legal problems.

For example, a college student, because a boy quarreled with a couple because of some trivial matters, hit a girl, was dismissed and was administratively detained for seven days. This is a manifestation of not establishing a correct view of love. This will eventually lead to unnecessary trouble. I left a black spot on my life path, which added obstacles to my future and future.

Most young people in their twenties are still naive, always full of dreams about life and easy to fall in love. For those who are not fully mature emotionally and psychologically, it is easy to be used by some malicious people, which breeds many sad and hateful stories. In my opinion, men and women should first correct their mentality and establish self-esteem, self-love and S.

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Love should be serious and single-minded. Love is a love relationship between two opposite sexes. This relationship contains its own unique feelings and obligations. Can only exist between two people who love each other, and no third party is allowed to intervene.

Correctly handle the relationship between love, study and career. Love is beautiful, it is an important part of life, but it is not the whole of life. It should obey the cause and promote the development of the cause.