1 If Xiao Hua is given another choice, it is not whether she still wants to be a junior high school classmate with Zhang Yimou. At that time, she never imagined that her junior high school classmates changed her fate.
After graduating from junior high school, the two went to work in the rural areas of Ganxian County, Shaanxi Province, and in the process of getting along constantly, they determined the relationship between men and women. Later, Zhang Yimou was assigned to the No.8 Cotton Mill in Xianyang City, Shaanxi Province as a worker, which was particularly far from the factory in Xiao Hua. But for people who love each other, distance is not a problem. At that time, Xiao Hua often went to Zhang Yimou to wash and cook for him and take care of him. When Zhang Yimou heard that others were pursuing Xiao Hua, he was anxious to write a letter of more than 40 pages to Xiao Hua to express his sincerity.
In the face of Zhang Yimou's sincerity, Xiao Hua lived up to it. At that time, Xiao Hua's father opposed Xiao Hua and Zhang Yimou being together, but Xiao Hua married him at the age of 28 in 1978 and gave birth to a lovely daughter Zhang Mo.
During this period, Zhang Yimou was admitted to the Photography Department of Beijing Film Academy and worked in Guangxi Film Studio after graduation. Zhang Yimou started acting and became a director. In order to give Zhang Yimou peace of mind to pursue his career, Xiao Hua gave up the opportunity to go to college and concentrated on taking care of his family.
Xiao Hua just didn't expect that the more successful Zhang Yimou's career was, the farther away she was from Zhang Yimou. At that time, in order to play the role in Old Well, Zhang Yimou, who was living in Shanxi, read Mo Yan's novel Red Sorghum. He realized that this book would be very sensational if it was adapted into a movie, so he went to Beijing to find Mo Yan and got the copyright of Red Sorghum.
When he started casting for Red Sorghum, Gong Li came into his life and became the heroine of Red Sorghum. Facts have proved that Zhang Yimou's judgment is very correct. The film Red Sorghum became an instant hit and won the Golden Bear Award at the 38th Berlin International Film Festival, becoming the first Asian film to win the award.
But also because of this movie, Zhang Yimou, who is 0/5 years older than Gong Li, fell in love with her, and Gong Li also fell in love with Zhang Yimou. Zhang Yimou forgot that he had a wife, Xiao Hua, and Gong Li forgot that she had a boyfriend. Later, Zhang Yimou and Gong Li collaborated on such classic films as Hanging the Red Lantern High and The Story of Autumn Chrysanthemum. Zhang Yimou became a great director and Gong Li became a famous actor.
At that time, Gong Li loved Zhang Yimou's passion. She knew what kind of woman Zhang Yimou needed, and she told him that she was willing to give up everything to have children for him.
But Gong Li hasn't given birth to Zhang Yimou yet, and their affairs are known by Zhang Yimou's wife Xiao Hua in his hometown. Once Zhang Yimou went back to his hometown, Xiaohua washed Zhang Yimou's clothes as usual. As a result, she found a letter in Zhang Yimou's pocket. She opened the letter and saw at the beginning: "You left and took my heart." At the end of the letter, she saw Gong Li's name.
From this letter, Xiao Hua learned that Gong Li was beaten by her boyfriend for Zhang Yimou, and Gong Li wanted to marry Zhang Yimou. In particular, some detailed descriptions in Gong Lixin deeply hurt Xiao Hua's heart. Gong Li wrote in the letter: "When we were together, you were so cute in my arms. We have endless words and things to do together ... "
Xiaohua encountered a bolt from the blue.
When Zhang Yimou came back that night, Xiao Hua said nothing. On the contrary, Zhang Yimou found that Xiao Hua had read the letter. He confessed to Xiaohua and begged her not to say anything. After all, for a rising director in Ran Ran, once the outside world knows such a thing, it may bring a devastating blow to his career.
Xiaohua promised Zhang Yimou, but a few days later, Zhang Yimou criticized her in turn, because Gong Li was beaten by her boyfriend again, and Zhang Yimou thought Xiaohua might complain to her boyfriend.
Zhang Yimou's distrust made Xiao Hua sad, but she felt sorry for Zhang Yimou's emotional problems.
But things have to be solved after all, and Xiao Hua finally broke his heart. One day, Gong Li's boyfriend called her. On the phone, he told her that he had seen Zhang Yimou once. He asked Zhang Yimou, "Your lover is very good. Are you worthy of her? " Zhang Yimou replied: "My marriage with my lover was a misunderstanding when I jumped the queue."
It turned out that their feelings were a misunderstanding in Zhang Yimou's heart, and Xiao Hua was heartbroken. She knew that the man she loved had changed.
Zhang Yimou said nothing, but made a choice. He told Xiaohua that he wanted a divorce. "My feelings can't come back. I want to be with her. Let others say what they like, whether it is Chen Shimei or a bastard, I am not living for others. "
Everyone is responsible for his choice, and so is Zhang Yimou. With Gong Li, he will be accused of abandoning his wife and daughter.
Xiao Hua agreed to divorce, and Zhang Yimou and Gong Li were together aboveboard.
But Gong Li couldn't understand why Zhang Yimou didn't want to get married after eight years of love and ups and downs. On one occasion, Gong Li's brother went to visit the Zhang Yimou film crew, and he asked Zhang Yimou why he didn't get married. Zhang Yimou replied, "Isn't marriage just a piece of paper? Why do you have to value this paper? "
Hearing these words, Gong Li's heart was broken like Xiaohua. They broke up.
Many years later, Zhang Yimou filmed "Golden Flower in the City", and he asked Gong Li to play the queen. The media asked him why he invited Gong Li back to play. Zhang Yimou said it was because of his promise, because he swore to Gong Li that Gong Li would be the queen once in his life. Now that he has found the right script, he has kept his promise. On the day of the conference of "Golden Flower in the City", Gong Li was in tears when he heard Zhang Yimou's words. At that time, Gong Li had married Huang Hexiang, president of BAT Asia Pacific.
Gong Li never imagined that this man, who had been unwilling to marry her, had married Chen Ting, who was 3 1 year younger than him. At that time, Chen Ting was only 19. She is a dancer. She met Zhang Yimou, and she fell in love with this man. And that year she was admitted to the university, and Zhang Yimou asked her if they could have children together. Between school and family, Chen Ting chose the latter, and gave birth to two sons and a daughter for Zhang Yimou when he was nameless. The marriage was officially registered in 20 1 1 year 65438+February. 20 13 Zhang Yimou was fined 7.48 million. However, after the fine, Zhang Yimou no longer kept secrets from Chen Ting and his three children, and they no longer lived in an "underground state".
Subsequently, Chen Ting was interviewed by the media. She said that although the husband and wife are separated, as long as Zhang Yimou calls and says that she will go home to sleep tonight, Chen Ting must stay until he comes home, so she can rest assured. Chen Ting is willing to be the woman who pays silently behind Zhang Yimou forever.
Perhaps for Zhang Yimou, whose bones are full of tradition, what he finally needs is a woman who has always supported him and paid for his family.
On the contrary, after Zhang Yimou was in Chen Ting, there was no emotional story. He devoted all his energy to his career. He said, "Our generation is educated and will not be kind to themselves. Looking back on my experience, I met a good opportunity step by step, much more talented than me! If I am still wasting time, wasting time, I can't say it. "
Finally, he became a Buddhist.