Be a mistress and run towards a well-off society.
Nowadays, when Xiao San has stepped onto the front desk from behind the scenes, from secrecy to openness, from being despised to glory, and then to being a little girl and heading for a well-off society, the evolution of Xiao San reflects the changes of this society in a certain sense. Left 20 10 is very strong. Facing the bombardment of netizens, he remained humble and even claimed that San Xiao was? Social stabilizer? It plays a bridge role in the redistribution of social wealth. In our country, most wealth and power are in the hands of a few people. If we women can control one of these people, we actually have a piece of land. There is a saying that men control the world through power and wealth, and women indirectly own the world by controlling men. Her argument is morally unacceptable, but it has no flaws in logic and reality. I have to remind people of the more popular second generation phenomenon.
I have to admit that the rich and powerful people in this society control the absolutely high-quality resources, while the official second generation and the rich second generation are stronger, and the poor second generation cannot compete with them at all. In the context of the prevalence of fighting for dad, the poor second generation can only fight alone and strive for self-improvement, but the fact is cruel. Because in social competition, in addition to personal ability and quality, it is more important to compete with the resources mastered by parents. The poor second generation without any support is in a weak position and is a full-fledged diaosi army.
The rising channel of the poor second generation has narrowed and become difficult, especially after the struggle. After struggling with fate, he is still pale and powerless. Once lofty aspirations and life ideals were exhausted by reality and scattered all over the place, which was very desolate. Being a mistress naturally bears social pressure. Zuo 20 10 from the countryside also thinks that he has put his youth on tomorrow. He wrote in Weibo that when I was young, I had lofty ideals and ambitions, but in the process of my study and employment, all kinds of unfairness I encountered completely shattered my dreams. I chose this lifestyle, knowing the risks, but I still want to bet my youth on tomorrow. Her various situations are reminiscent of 2008, when a poor second-generation female college student posted that she would rather be a mistress than marry the poor. As soon as this language came out, she was besieged by netizens. Whether you are a junior or a junior, it is incompatible with the current mainstream values and inherent traditional morality. They may be different. They don't get along well with rich people or officials like other girls, but use the internet to express their views. Their behavior also deserves in-depth reflection.
Many people at the bottom of society take reading to change their fate and struggle to change their lives as their life creed, which deviates from the value belief that "it is better to study hard, get married and get the first place in the exam" if you have a good father. From sneering at social injustice, to worshipping power and money, and then to using it as a show-off capital, it can be seen that the cruel reality has pushed personality into a dark and obscure corner. When some people from the bottom face a difficult realistic situation and can't change their destiny, value distortion may occur, even if there is a lot of helplessness and powerlessness.
The phenomenon of rich and poor is closely related to the gap between rich and poor, regional gap and urban-rural gap. The gap between the rich and the poor is widening, the regional economic development is unbalanced, and the dual structure of urban and rural areas has not been broken, which leads to the concentration of social resources in minority areas and minority groups, and a few people control most of the resources of this society. Under the great pressure of survival, taking the shortcut to the big money has become an option for some people.
The public appearance of contract lover Zuo 20 10 is a kind of self-disclosure of mistress. In contrast, all kinds of successful people are almost unscrupulous in recruiting mistresses, targeting female college students.
"Contemporary Life Daily" once reported that many students in Torch Road near Guangxi University received a unique business card, which publicly stated that successful people sought long-term and short-term girlfriends, subsidized the woman's living expenses ranging from several thousand yuan to several tens of thousands yuan every month, and signed a legally binding contract. Advertisements for mistresses also appeared openly on a regular large-scale recruitment website in Panyu.
The public has long been accustomed to recruiting mistresses and raising mistresses, and related advertisements are flooding in many dark corners of society. Such standardized large-scale recruitment is rare. Not only is there a lot of work, but the previous concealment has also become blatant, and the last fig leaf has been thrown away.
Needless to say, the increasingly disintegrating social values are not binding on the act of recruiting mistresses. On the contrary, it is a very glorious thing. The entry threshold is very high, at least you have to be rich or powerful, and most people can't afford it. The evaluation system of the whole society is sometimes distorted. There are fewer and fewer people criticizing the phenomenon of keeping mistresses, but more and more people are envious.
The most typical example is that two years ago, a small advertisement for finding a mistress appeared in a university. The recruiter claimed to be the ticket brother. Because he won more than 1000 million in the lottery and became rich overnight, he wanted to find a beautiful woman to play with, but he claimed to be conservative and low-key. Rich people keep mistresses, powerful people keep mistresses, and people without money learn to do the same when they have money. It can be seen that keeping mistresses has become a symbol of success in a sense and a kind of capital to show its wealth or power.
Some people even say that a person's taste can be seen by looking at his mistress, and the quality of his mistress reflects the taste of the rich or powerful. In other words, in today's society, keeping mistresses is not just as simple as finding a beautiful woman to satisfy her lust. The act of keeping a mistress itself carries a lot of added value and embodies the social evaluation standard recognized by most people today.
It is not uncommon for all kinds of so-called successful people to be beautiful, but it is rare to target college girls in an organized, step-by-step and blatant way through brokers. In society, successful people are scarce and always want to occupy more resources. In a sense, beauty, especially high-quality beauty, is a scarce resource.
Beauty is naturally loved by everyone, isn't there a saying? Whoever doesn't care to see beauty is sorry for God. As a result, those successful people who were once poor and now developed secretly hung colorful flags outside behind their wives' backs, hoping that the red flag at home would float down for a long time. This also coincides with the reason why so many intermediaries and headhunters are eager to find high-quality beauty for the rich and organize various parties. Where there is demand, there is a market, which is naturally profitable.
The so-called contract lovers are mistresses and mistresses. All are clearly marked, and different price levels are divided according to the level of beauty resources. Those successful people pay more attention to the beauty's face, waist and temperament. To put it bluntly, they can buy higher sexual effects through money. For them, beauty is used to make love, to meet physical needs and to satisfy vanity. For some nouveau riche, how many beautiful women have slept, or how many women there are, are all showing off capital. This is for the buyer. In their eyes, there are women with money, and women are more like commodities.
It is human nature to like beautiful women, whether rich or poor. The problem lies not in liking this level, but in the open possession of material and the open overflow of desire. It seems that beauty is only the exclusive product of the rich. What is revealed behind this public and domineering declaration is the arrogance of money standard or power standard. It is worth noting that in the face of contract lovers, fewer and fewer people hold the psychology of rejection and disgust, while more and more people accept, tolerate, take for granted and even agree.
Some girls think that one is willing to fight another and get what he wants. Indeed, our social values are increasingly diversified, and the mainstream values are gradually diluted and weakened, showing a situation in which multiple values contend and agitate. The original collectivism values are challenged by individualism, and people are more willing to express their likes, dissatisfaction or individuality than to strictly follow the traditional or mainstream social norms.
In fact, commercial hostility prevails in society, and many things have abandoned the traditional value evaluation standards and replaced them with economic interests. In a sense, contract lovers and mistresses reveal the loss of social values and the failure of social norms.
The battle for marriage defense is accompanied by the openness of mistresses, and an online discussion of swords and shadows is full of gunpowder:
I am a mistress. Who am I afraid of? Do one thing, love another, be a good mistress.