Many people want to have a sweet love. Each of us will encounter a moment of love, and at this time we will add each other's WeChat. However, WeChat chat is very important. Let's share the WeChat chat records of the girls we just met.
Just met the girl's WeChat chat record 1 and the new girl's chat skills 1, and didn't check the account.
Don't audit, don't audit, don't audit! Say the important things more than three times!
Audit an account as a question. You are not a policeman, and you are not qualified to question anyone!
Put yourself in others' shoes. If a stranger you just met keeps asking you questions, how do you feel? You just think this person is disgusting and disgusting, right?
Similarly, when you question a woman, she feels the same as you do.
One more thing, there is no shortage of people around her to check her accounts. Once you do the same, you will become cheap.
Chatting with new girls skill 2, control the number of words.
The obvious imbalance is that you talk more than your sister.
Now we can take out our mobile phones and look at the chat interface between you and your sister. If there are more green ones than white ones, much more, it is unbalanced.
We should control the number of words in the chat, because once you exceed the number of words of your sister, it will be obvious that you need her, much more than she needs you, and then you will become very cheap.
Chatting with new girls. Tip 3: Don't talk about family.
Some brothers are funny. They like to talk to their sister about trivial things from the beginning. You have to make it clear that you and this girl were strangers before you met!
Your life has nothing in common. If you ask your sister if she has eaten and what she is doing all day, gossip and talk about her family, she will think you are inexplicable and untrue.
If you are already familiar with it, it is normal to talk about family, but try not to talk about family in the case of strangers, because talking about family is too logical, and women are emotional creatures. Talking about logical topics will only make girls feel bored and boring.
Chatting with new girls. Tip 4: Use more expressions.
The traditional education of China people tells us that it is mature to keep quiet, and men who giggle are frivolous, so many brothers and sisters are either expressionless or just smirking when chatting.
The influence and trust in interpersonal communication come from three aspects: language, intonation and image. The proportion of its importance is: language accounts for 7%; Intonation accounts for 38%; Vision accounts for 55%.
Sister chats with you on WeChat. If she only sees your words, your communication is only 7%, but besides words, she can also see your expression, and she can feel your mood from your expression.
Similarly, if a girl chats with you, she never shows her face, and you have no idea how the girl on the other end of the phone feels now.
Therefore, using more expressions can make your chat smoother.
Chatting with new girls. Tip 5: Pay attention to the frequency.
Never chat with your sister all day, or she will think you are free. Look at the talented people outside. Who will be idle?
If you are too free, read more books and go out for a walk. Picking up girls only enriches your life, not your whole life.
Also, don't call your sister back every second. If you always call your sister back every second, she will think you are playing with your mobile phone all day!
Control yourself, even if you are really playing with your mobile phone, you will see the message sent by your sister for the first time, so don't return to this sister in seconds. Do you think she has time to reply you? Maybe if you send a message, she will reply to you in nearly half an hour, and you will reply immediately. Congratulations, you have succeeded and become very cheap.
Chatting with new girls. Tip 6: Remember the purpose.
As I said before, don't gossip, that is to tell you that you must chat for a purpose, either to attract girls, to upgrade your relationship, or to date or date.
You must remember why you want to chat with this girl and what is the final result of this chat. This is very important.
Wechat chat records of girls I just met 2 How to chat with girls
1, timely care is the most provocative
In order to show their sense of humor, some brothers always joke with girls at inappropriate times, and as a result, they are accidentally blacked out by girls, such as chatting with girls, swearing when they are unfamiliar, or teasing girls to say "it seems that we are suitable", but girls reply "I don't want you to think, I want me to think that we are not suitable"
In fact, if you want to get familiar with girls quickly, it is not enough to memorize routines and skills, but also to give care and greetings at an appropriate time. For example, if a girl is sick, ask her if she needs help or companionship, so that you won't appear deliberate or abrupt.
2. Let girls talk more to get to know her.
When chatting with a girl, don't talk alone, learn to make the conversation between two people interactive, and even guide the girl to talk more, so as to get to know her faster.
When you want to know where the girl is from, don't ask her directly, tell her where you are from first. After leading her to say something like "I'm from Guangdong, but I don't eat everything", the girl will be amused by your words, and then you ask her "By the way, where are you from?" Girls will definitely be willing to answer this question.
We can only talk together if we do what we like.
Chatting with girls, if you don't have the same hobbies, it's hard to talk together. For example, when chatting, I only talk about the games I am good at, so I only feel like playing. But if you want to talk to a girl about skin care and makeup that she is interested in, I don't think many boys will talk, so when chatting with a girl, you should know something about this topic at the same time, so as to better extend the topic.
In love, girls like a boy who is talkative, humorous and has many advantages. Like a treasure boy, she couldn't put it down. So when chatting with a girl, if you want her to like you, you should learn these three chatting skills. Even the slowest girl will secretly fall in love with you.
I just saw the girl's WeChat chat record. 3. How to chat with blind date WeChat?
First, you need to choose the right time to chat with the blind date WeChat.
Usually when chatting with people you don't know, there will be such a confusion that you don't know when the other person will be free. If the other person happens to be busy when you send a message, the message you send will not only improve your relations, but also make the other person hate you. So when is the best time to send a message?
First, you can observe his circle of friends. When you find that he has just updated his circle of friends, you can take the initiative to chat with him on WeChat. Because the other party has time to make friends, it means that the other party is definitely not busy now. Think about it, will you leisurely pick up your mobile phone and send it to your circle of friends when you are busy?
So at this time, send a WeChat to the blind date, as long as you don't particularly hate each other, you will reply. Whether you can mobilize each other's emotions next depends on the next WeChat chat skills.
Second, the topic selection of blind date WeChat chat is the most important.
Since you just met your blind date and neither of them knows each other very well, the headache is the topic of chat. If you ask questions blindly, it will also make the other person bored and make the chat conversation like a news interview. So is there any good way to make the chat interesting and make the other person feel destined for me?
1, observe each other's circle of friends: a circle of friends is a person's social business card. You can find many clues in the circle of friends of blind date men, such as his hobbies and living habits.
Also, don't tell people so bluntly that you have seen their circle of friends. For example, if you see a person who loves stinky tofu in his circle of friends, you can say on WeChat that you like stinky tofu, and then your topic will arise, and the other person will feel very congenial to you!
2, ask for help from the blind date: this move can be described as a hundred trials! For example, you can say, "I really want to eat hot pot recently. Do you know any delicious hot pot restaurant? " Or "I have a friend who is going to have a birthday recently and I don't know what to send." You are all boys. What do you think is better for me? "
It should be noted that this topic must be open and not closed, such as "Are you going to work tomorrow?" This closed topic is hard to say.
Third, the time to reply to the blind date male WeChat is controlled.
Chatting with the blind date male WeChat, you need to let the other person have emotional input during the chat. For example, just when you were talking very high, the other person suddenly stopped talking. At this time, will there be a sense of gap in your heart, and will you especially want to continue chatting with each other?
Ten minutes later, the other party will reply to you again, and you will be ecstatic. This kind of chatting skill can arouse the other person's mood, and the other person will pay more attention to chatting with you.