Different places mean different marriage values and completely different living customs. Holidays are also a troublesome problem. One party always follows the other to visit relatives in his hometown. It's okay to be closer, but the other person may not want to go. If the couple take turns to go to each other's hometown, although the problem is solved on the surface, it also increases the economic pressure of a newly established family. If there are children in the future, the pressure will be even greater.
For example, some lovers of Beijingers basically don't want to leave Beijing. If the other person's hometown is in a better city in Shanxi and Henan, it is a small village in Jiangxi and Yunnan. The devil will visit relatives with you so often. After having children, the transportation fee alone can make the family make ends meet, and they can only go once a year or two at most. What's more, it also involves the hukou problem of children's schooling. If both of them are not local, the children will go back to their hometown in the future, because the problem of the college entrance examination in different places has not been solved.
Children who lack parents for a long time are bound to have psychological problems. If one parent should be local, although the current problem has been solved, children, as juniors, should often visit their grandparents. If he doesn't go often, he will be separated from his mother's relatives. If both parents live in the local area for a long time, and there are no relatives to visit, for a long time, children will almost disown their six parents, leading to the lack of thinking about family values.