In this practical investigation, we adopted the way of issuing questionnaires. The scope of investigation is within the campus of Sanda University (see attached questionnaire). Questionnaires * * * Design 10. In this activity, we distributed 100 questionnaires, of which 97 were valid. Among them, for the first question, 46% people choose unclear; Students all think that moral concept is just an attitude towards others, and there is no certain standard, so it should not be framed by very fine concepts. For the second question, 4 1% people chose to actively participate, and 42% people chose not to refute or voluntarily; It can be seen from questions 2, 3, 4 and 5 that everyone's sense of dedication is not too strong. No subjective desire, just follow the crowd. For the sixth question, the support rate of wisdom and morality is similar, accounting for 42% and 40% respectively. This shows that high morality has not yet become a matter of course. As for the seventh question, 57% people choose B. Only 12% people have the C option. Although filial piety is very important, there are not a few people who choose to serve the motherland. Similarly, the eighth question, 67% people choose to be conducive to self-development, and the students' ideas are still very realistic. As for the ninth question, most students have no choice. Because they don't know what party and government work is. And the last question, we return to the theme, between morality and honesty, it is difficult for students to choose. Believe that honesty and morality are equal.
China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times. Obviously, people in China pay attention to etiquette, and there are certain rules from respecting the old and loving the young to gestures. In such a long history, China people should also pay great attention to moral behavior. However, from our investigation, it is found that the ambiguity of contemporary college students' moral concepts is worrying.
After summing up, we find that there are several reasons for college students' moral problems.
One is the imperfection of the school education department. In today's society, school has become the most important place in one's life. From an ignorant child to a fledgling young man, I spent more than ten years in school. It can be said that school education has become people's enlightenment education. If the focus of education from childhood is the norms of moral behavior, then a person who grows up in such an atmosphere will naturally have a good moral standard. At present, the ideological and moral courses in most schools have become nominal courses, and students can't breathe under the pressure of exams. Under the pressure of indicators, the school also reduced moral education and strengthened the tactics of asking questions about the sea. Students can only grow up in an atmosphere with strong sense of competition, which is naturally more realistic and utilitarian.
Second, parents are too fond of education. Nowadays, most college students are only children, forming a 4-2- 1 family structure. Old people and parents hold them in their hands and are reluctant to let them do little things. This makes college students have no social practice ability and are blind and arrogant. It is not modest to think that others should make way for him, let alone other moral concepts. In order not to let children suffer, parents should educate their children from an early age not to be humble, but to fight for it. These parents don't know that sometimes it is a blessing to suffer. If a child can get a good moral education from an early age, his attitude towards life will be positive and healthy, and he will know that it is right to pursue his own ideals, but he can't snatch other people's goods and achievements. Know a sense of justice and stand up when you need to help others. Know not to aim too high, but to start with small things. Only by being down-to-earth and asking for advice modestly can we develop better. This good attitude towards life can also be a part of moral behavior. But parents' education is different.
The third is the limitation of social environment. Now is the market economy era of economic development. People pay more attention to economic interests than morality. With the accelerated pace of life, few people can slow down and pay attention to the uncivilized phenomenon around them, let alone stop it. Contemporary college students live in such a social environment, and most students will focus on professional education and income-generating economy. No one wants to study the new rules in the code of ethics. For example, the previous "protection first" movement. Everyone knows the vastness, but if you really want to talk about its main content, you are not clear. College students' research on moral concepts is still superficial and not in-depth. This is also an aspect that college students need to correct.
Finally, we can't deny that there are great problems in college students themselves, which make their moral concepts weak. There are many shortcomings in the attitude towards life of contemporary college students. College students' attitude towards life is not positive, and many college students hold a negative attitude of "failing to get high marks, just passing". What's more, it is not uncommon for college students to cheat to find gunmen in CET-4 and CET-6. This is undoubtedly the bottom line of attacking college students' moral concepts. Among college students, there is also a general attitude of eating, drinking and enjoying life. They live a luxurious life, lavish and frugal. These are several important problems that are common among contemporary college students.
To sum up the above aspects, I think the cultivation of moral concepts is not the responsibility of a department, nor can it be solved by college students' personal efforts. This is a century-old project, which requires the concerted efforts of all parties. In view of the above points, I also make the following suggestions.
We all know the importance of ideological and moral concepts. In order to build a perfect moral system, we should abandon utilitarian education from the beginning of family education, cultivate children's moral consciousness from an early age, let them know what is right and wrong, and distinguish between good and evil. Parents should let their children know that they can eat and wear warm clothes, don't spoil their children blindly, and don't ignore their moral mistakes. It is necessary to correct and educate immediately. The education department should also strengthen moral education. Let ideological and political lessons go out of books and into social practice. Let every student feel that this is a useful and beneficial course. The system of exam-oriented education also needs to be slightly relaxed to allow more time for students. Let them learn the beauty in society and correct the ugliness in society. Society should also introduce more perfect laws and regulations to force people to be civilized citizens. While developing the economy, we should not forget to emphasize social morality. Make our city an international metropolis. It is also a harmonious society that everyone envies. As the core of the problem, college students should adjust their mentality and their attitude towards life. Set up your own life pursuit. Don't just pay attention to the economy, but also pay attention to the future development of the individual. After all, it is impossible to find a good job and gain a foothold in society without a perfect moral concept. Perhaps it will take some time to cultivate one's good moral standard, which is slower than others, but in the future competition, morality will play an increasingly important role, and the attitude towards others will determine success or failure.
There are still many shortcomings and problems in this social survey, and there is no way to be perfect. Just like the current moral situation of college students, there are some problems, but overall it is still good. I hope that through this questionnaire and survey, I can arouse college students' self-reflection consciousness, understand what problems they still have and try to correct them. In this way, my purpose is completed. And the moral concept of college students will also be improved. In the long run, this is a new hope for the new development of society.
Briefly describe the moral standards, ideals and responsibilities that contemporary college students should have.
The mentality that contemporary college students should have.
It is true that a strong teenager makes a strong country. Because as college students, they not only shoulder the heavy responsibility of stepping into society, replacing middle-aged people and promoting social development, but also shoulder the heavy responsibility of setting an example and guiding the next generation to tide over difficulties. Undoubtedly, in a sense, college students are the inherited generation. However, as a hinge, it is bound to inherit its fragile nature, and it is most vulnerable to erosion and bending due to excessive pressure. Therefore, in the face of complex society, what kind of mentality college students should adopt to accept the world, accept themselves and tolerate others has become an unavoidable topic.
Perhaps most people have experienced such a stage: when they were young, they were full of longing for the future, leaning against the fence, standing high above them and sketching out the future. Later, as I grew older, I began to be at a loss about the future, full of confusion, and even afraid of the future. Many people don't know what they will do in the future and can't position themselves reasonably. This leads to anxiety and loss. More people just muddle along and move on blankly. But this situation is normal. This is because people at this stage are inexperienced and unable to accurately locate their own lives. Admittedly, few people can do this. However, if it fails, it will lead to a big mistake. Therefore, we must ask our elders for help. Some people may think that the views of elders are too old-fashioned to apply to reality. This is a biased view. Although the cognition of the world will always change with the changes of the times, the truth and philosophy behind it will not change. If we just think that the elders' thoughts are out of date, it can only show that we have no ability to abstract the truth from common things, or that we have no ability to distinguish the timely truth with an open mind, and we have no ability to sum up the useful, eliminate the outdated and use it for ourselves. Of course, it will be blinded by many appearances. Therefore, as a young man in his twenties, he should treat life positively, seriously, inquiringly and modestly.
There are also many people who will ask what life is, how long it is and how to spend it. People who have these questions are normal. Most people on this planet will have a few moments in their short life, looking up at the sky and asking about their starting point and ending point. Therefore, most people who are confused about the future have thought about the future, and those who have thought about where to go are thinking about how to live and how to live. It can be said that life is an ideal practice, the form of practice is a career, and a career is something that we do well and do for a lifetime. Therefore, choosing what to do becomes the key. Some people have clear goals and go forward bravely. But some people are at a loss and can't help themselves. Limited to the level, college students have never experienced many things, and their life circle is very small. It is normal to feel that the choice is too small. Therefore, as a college student, it doesn't really matter what you choose. What matters is what you have experienced, what you have experienced and what you have gained. With more experience and broadened horizons, we can define ourselves more clearly, have more choices and make it easier to choose. Therefore, we should take an eclectic and positive attitude towards the cause we expect.
For many people, the world is big; For some people, the world is small. Whether it's big or small, it's a difference of thoughts. Whether it is black or white is all in one thought. Whether you are worried or happy is a matter of one thought. We can neither read the books of sages wholeheartedly nor jump to conclusions about things. Treat the world, the society and the people around you with a modest, calm and rational attitude, not indifferent and emotional. Sometimes things are not what we think, maybe they are much more complicated, maybe they are much simpler. Things happen for their own reasons and have their own results. We don't need to dig deeper, let alone exaggerate. After all, our time is limited and our life is limited. Why not make a cup of coffee and read a good book? Make a pot of hot tea and see the distant mountains; Even sipping a cup of cold boiled water and quietly thinking about your heart is a leisurely afternoon. For those unfortunate things, be compassionate and have a broad mind. Unfortunate things will happen anywhere, and there is also her beautiful and moving side. After all, we should be grateful for living and growing up in this land. Since we have no ability to change her imperfections, we should accept her frankly instead of exaggerating her shortcomings. We love this land. It doesn't belong to you, me or anything. We love it only because of our kindness. Just as we love our planet and our hometown, just as we love our children, we should love our country and our society with a loving heart.
Maybe many people like to be alone, and some people don't like to associate, which is not a bad thing. Communication and solitude are our needs as a normal person. Whether it is the joy and noise in communication or the tranquility and leisure in solitude, it is indispensable in life, but it should be arranged properly, so as not to let yourself be too addicted to interpersonal communication, or feel at a loss or unable to identify the true feelings; Don't let yourself be too addicted to the closed self, or feel sad and depressed, or feel frustrated and disappointed. People who like to associate sometimes fear loneliness, but it is not necessary. This is the normal state of life, with ups and downs; People who like to be alone are sometimes afraid of the noise of communication, but they are not. This is the spice of life, sweet and sour. Therefore, whether it is lively or quiet, communication or solitude, we should accept, feel, blend in, embrace the taste of life and be moved by the surprise of life with a calm mind.
Although life can't be the best and people around you can't be like-minded, there are such a group of people who share your life in the best years of your life. What can make people feel more happy and moved than this? This is a miracle of life. Especially in the sincere college era, we should be grateful for the courtesy of this life, accept your other half with tolerance and love, and accept the most important person in your life.
After four years of college, many people will meet their lifelong partners, or they may be unforgettable people. There are also many people who don't believe that love in college is the last mellow and clean love in life. Don't criticize such people too much. After all, I am lucky to have experienced this pure and sweet person. It should be said that I met the miracle of life. I have never met this lucky person, maybe I will meet him in the future, but since I am cared for by the goddess of luck, I feel sorry for those who can't cherish this feeling, or play with applause, or indulge in utilitarianism. After all, he missed the great benefits of life.
Some people worry too much and are afraid of losing to time, distance and money. These are all unnecessary worries. People with these concerns should take a good look at their hearts and how much love they have. Love ultimately means blending, and blending means affection. Lovers should be like family. Will the feelings for parents be lost to distance? Will the feelings for children be lost to money? Will the affection for family lose out to time? I think the answer is obvious. Of course, we can't completely ignore the actual situation. However, once a choice is made, the adventure of life begins. What we have to do is to cherish this gift and turn it into an eternal heart.
Many people have prejudices in their hearts, whether from gender, personality or personal preferences. In fact, these are all manifestations of self-uncertainty. An optimistic and confident person will not have prejudice in his heart. Just like healthy people don't get sick. Many times, we can't grasp all the facts, and because of our stubbornness, we refuse to understand and lead to prejudice. Many girls think boys are bad, but who is perfect? Many boys think that girls are not good, but in fact they are just expressing their own judgment. For others, for our partners, we should not blame, complain or change anything, but learn tolerance, acceptance and gratitude. Love with a loving heart, and we will find that we are actually each other's ideal objects, but we still need time to find each other.
what is love ? Many people can't answer at once. In fact, love is the spark when eyes meet. It is not bright, but it is enough to impress people who have lived on this planet for generations. We are all pursuing this single spark and have spent a short life. Human beings have survived from generation to generation by this little spark; However, this little spark has carried a whole great history and influenced countless joys and sorrows. How can it be said to be a miracle of life? How can you accept her without gratitude and love? We are the inheritors of this spark, and our feelings must not be utilitarian and frivolous, otherwise it will be contempt and trampling on life. Love with love, fill love with love, appreciate love with love, thank our partners and their company.
Maybe you will be depressed for a while, immersed in sadness; Maybe you will feel depressed, lost and desperate. However, think about 50 years later, when we are sitting at home, playing chess with our grandchildren, knitting sweaters for our granddaughters and occasionally reading newspapers, but the loneliness and frustration in 2008 are nothing. Who will remember? Brave progress, brave pursuit, brave life, peace, acceptance and modesty; Love with love, live with love, live with love. Maybe this is what we should pursue most.
What moral qualities should contemporary college students possess? Experience tells me that the most important quality that contemporary college students must possess is honesty!
What qualities should contemporary college students possess? First, I want to tell you a question. Don't call yourself a college student in the future, because college students are nothing From 2000 to 20 10, there were 40 million college students in China, not counting before. On average, there is one college student in every 30 people. College students should call themselves highly educated workers.
University is the most precious time in your school.
We need to learn to communicate;
Learn to communicate,
Learning skills
Learn to coordinate
Learn to cultivate
Learn to be calm.
As contemporary college students, what qualities should we have? 1 Basic moral values (including filial piety, courtesy, faith, etc. )
Mature values (don't be like some shit)
An excellent knowledge (can reflect the focus of college students' work in the field of people's work)
Certain communication skills (all the above conditions can be reflected)
Optimistic, generous and upright, tenacious, open-minded, the motherland starts from me.
Does Baidu have a paper: What do you think of the morality of contemporary college students?
Did you live together or did something deviant?
What etiquette qualities should contemporary college students have to make you different?
Adam Sking, a very famous American sociologist, wrote a book "Social Class and Luck". He said that etiquette is "a lubricant between people. If life is like a snowy peak, etiquette is a sledge climbing it. If life is a river, etiquette is a boat that carries you on a long voyage. If etiquette is a thick book, then etiquette is the password to record your success. "
Happy women are often women who know manners. If a woman in her twenties wants to be happy and have her own career, she must deal with different people and handle all kinds of affairs. If they are proficient in various manners, they will lay a good foundation for successful communication.
Since ancient times, the Chinese nation has been a prestigious "state of etiquette". In all kinds of social relations, it is an important aspect of our excellent cultural tradition to emphasize etiquette and morality, advocate harmonious interpersonal relationships and pursue spiritual beauty of individual personality.
Etiquette is a comprehensive behavioral science, which refers to the behavior of self-discipline and respect for others in interpersonal communication according to certain and established procedures and methods from beginning to end. It is a code of conduct and norm recognized by the times, that is, a code of conduct that can be accurately expressed and stipulated by language, words and actions, and has become a code of conduct that people consciously learn and abide by.
For a woman, etiquette is the external expression of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural accomplishment and communication ability; For a society, etiquette is a reflection of a country's social civilization, morality and living habits. Paying attention to and developing etiquette education has become an important content of moral practice.
From the perspective of communication, etiquette is an applicable art in interpersonal communication, and it can also be said to be a way; From the perspective of communication, etiquette is a skill of mutual communication in interpersonal communication; From the aesthetic point of view, etiquette is a kind of formal beauty and an inevitable externalization of human spiritual beauty.
The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. From the content point of view, there are appearance, behavior, expression, clothing, speech, treating people and so on; From the object, there are personal etiquette, public etiquette, hospitality etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, civilized communication etiquette and so on.
As contemporary college students, what kind of national defense concept should we have? Cultivating contemporary college students' national defense concept should start from three aspects:
First, improve students' ability to consciously safeguard national interests on various occasions.
Second, according to the requirements of the "Implementation Outline of Citizen Moral Construction" issued by the Central Committee: "Guide people to carry forward the spirit of patriotism, improve national self-esteem, self-confidence and pride, take loving the motherland and serving the people as the greatest glory, and harm the interests of the motherland and national dignity as the greatest shame." The 5,000-year history of Chinese civilization tells the world that patriotism is the inexhaustible motive force of the Chinese nation. Carrying forward the spirit of patriotism is the eternal theme that we advocate all progressive ideas and advanced culture.
The third is to establish three kinds of consciousness of national sovereignty, national interests and national security issues. This is a strategic issue related to the overall situation of the country and a fundamental support for the interests of the people. Paying attention to cultivating and improving these three kinds of consciousness of college students is not only the inevitable requirement of national defense education, but also the task entrusted by the state to higher education in the new period.