I have been growing up with my parents before, and I basically have to leave my parents in college, so it is normal to have separation anxiety. The emergence of separation anxiety is precisely because of the close relationship with parents. So don't feel sorry for yourself, or there will be more negative emotions.

Face homesickness

Understanding this kind of emotion, then daring to face this kind of emotion and experiencing the existence of this kind of anxiety is the only process for us to mature. Only when you really leave your parents' wings can you achieve psychological separation, so you should bravely overcome it even if you feel uncomfortable.

Plan your college life and become full.

If college life is at a loss, it is easy to produce various emotions, and homesickness is one of them. Therefore, in order to prevent this anxiety, we should pay more attention to our actual college life and plan our study and entertainment.

If you are homesick, call home.

If you are really homesick, call your parents to talk about college life, or get in touch with them through online video. When you miss your parents, they also care about you. Therefore, contact before college is a panacea to overcome separation anxiety. With the passage of time and adaptation to college life, it is undoubtedly more conducive to our independent growth and maturity to gradually desensitize and reduce frequent and long-term contact with our parents.

It is the best stage of college life.

In college, you have no burden from your family, and you have a lot of free time. At most, you will have the pressure of final exams and textual research, and there will be a long winter and summer vacation, so you must cherish this time. No matter whether you enter the society or pursue further studies in the future, the pressure in all aspects will be much greater.

You are working hard for yourself and your family.

In order to realize your ideal, you chose to study in your ideal university. Be brave for your ideal, and don't doubt your choice because of homesickness. My family has always supported me behind my back, and I am looking forward to my growth. Make yourself strong, that's the best way to care for your family.