Different schedules with dormitory members can also lead to conflicts, such as littering and playing games in the dormitory, which will affect others' rest. At first, college students generally adopted a tolerant attitude, but when contradictions became irreconcilable, they naturally broke out.

Solution:

1, take the initiative and explain why.

Communicate actively and don't let your roommate doubt you. If it is a dormitory fight, explain your position, don't participate, don't ask, just be a bystander and don't want to be involved. Tell your roommate how you feel. It's best to be tactful, not too tough and neutral. If there is a contradiction with others, it is better to express yourself directly and take the first step. Don't make things stiff. If you can turn over, don't insist, otherwise it will be bad for anyone.

2, avoid in time, don't head-on collision.

If many attempts to make peace fail, and you are still being targeted, and your roommate is still picking on you, then simply give up. This kind of person is not worth lowering his head to make peace. Then spend less time in the dormitory and pursue what you want. The most important thing in coming to college is to study.

Extended data:

Principles of Solving the Contradictions in College Dormitories

1. Teach students to know themselves correctly and put themselves in others' shoes. Many dormitory conflicts arise because college students don't know themselves correctly, especially their own advantages and disadvantages. Because they don't know themselves, and teenagers are young, energetic and easy to get emotional. They always blame each other when things happen, and they don't calm down to reflect on their own problems and mistakes. Such accusations tend to aggravate contradictions.

2. Counselors should learn to do psychological counseling. Help students learn to think from each other's perspective, and help them realize the importance of interpersonal relationships. If you have bad feelings, when you get along with your roommates, you should communicate openly, respect, understand and tolerate, learn to put yourself in the other person's shoes and get along with others with a tolerant measure. This can not only eliminate barriers, but also deepen understanding, enhance friendship, and then resolve contradictions.