1, we should treat love correctly and correctly handle the relationship between love and study. Love is a major event in life, but it is not the whole of life. College students should focus on their studies, because learning is their main purpose. But don't think that love is a stumbling block to your career. If handled well, love can also play a catalytic role in your career. 1, correct the motivation of love, whether love is for comfort and boredom, not just for sexual satisfaction. The choice of love object is a complicated process, which is the ideal direction of * * *, and the morality and sentiment of * * * are the most fundamental. The quality of love motivation is directly related to the success of love. 2. Have a good time together. For college students, this college time must be the best time in life. Therefore, we should fully enjoy the days with our lover. People who know how to fall in love will urge and improve each other and prepare for the future. ? How to keep love for a long time? 3. Control your lover's possessiveness. Boys are possessive of their lovers, and think that girlfriends should belong to them, and they are not allowed to associate with other boys. We must correct this view in order to treat love correctly and attract each other with our talents. 4. Dare to take responsibility in feelings. In a relationship, both sides should understand and respect each other. No matter what problems you encounter, you should take the initiative to attack, rather than choose to escape. How do college students correctly handle the problem of love? It is said that if there is no good love in college, it is equivalent to reading in vain. However, college students should handle their personal emotional problems well and not bring unnecessary troubles to themselves, others and even the school. How to deal with college students' personal emotional problems instead of giving everything? First of all, we should have the courage to find our love in college. There is nothing wrong with this, but we don't regard our own as everything to each other, or that each other is everything to you. This is an extremely naive idea, which will bring a lot of trouble to your future contacts. Dare to love is the courage that young people should have, but it is not the reason to give everything. Give up arrogance and learn to understand that many people always give themselves a special position in love. For example, when will you wait for me after class? Why? Because I am your female (male) friend, it is this reason that will make you more angry, but have you ever thought that two people who really love each other will deliberately make each other angry? Love is not a TV series, learn to treat it truly. Rational treatment is not delayed: learn to keep your own character and have your own characteristics. Although there are no unattractive women, only women who can't make up, this is absolutely one-sided. In fact, more people are still not beautiful or handsome, so the reason why he makes the opposite side feel good is his own temperament, or his courage, or his gentleness and thoughtfulness. Do not change yourself because of love. How do college students deal with personal emotional problems? Failure is just another way. The above points can be said to increase the possibility of their success in love, but they will not change the fate of more people failing. What should you do? You know, people who fail should know more about love. At this time, if you give up on yourself, you will hurt your family and friends around you. Injured people are generally irrational and selfish, as if the world owes you something, but have you ever thought that many people are really innocent? So make it clear that success and failure are actually just an attitude, and then it's up to you! In order to kill time, college students fall in love, and boys have more physiological needs. Physical needs are more curious. A considerable number of strong criminals know that they will be sentenced, or they will take risks. It can be seen from the side that physiological needs are enough to cause men to grab the wall. Through the above analysis, we realize that under the influence of various environments, contemporary college students will present different types and different degrees of emotional problems and contradictions, which will have a negative impact on college students themselves and society. How to adjust their emotional problems correctly and effectively. It has become a common concern of society and schools today. How do college students correctly handle the problem of love? The love problem of contemporary college students is whether love has been paid or not. Nowadays, college students' view of love is more pragmatic and conscious. They always consider what they can get from each other in the process of love, but seldom consider what they can do for each other. This will lead to their dissatisfaction with their lovers in the process of love, and even seriously hurt each other. Therefore, college students should establish a correct view of love, and love means. The problem of contemporary college students' love is that they can't be financially independent during their college years. They have to rely on their families to provide living and study expenses, and they have to spend a certain amount when they fall in love. This requires two people to do what they can, and the economic expenditure during their love period can't exceed the range that both parties can bear, otherwise it will affect their study and life. If the family conditions are not good, it will also bring economic burden to both families. This is a problem that college students in love must attach great importance to. The love problem of contemporary college students-love can't affect normal study. Although college students can fall in love, their main task is to study, which does not affect their study. Love should promote both sides to study harder, so as to lay the foundation for a better future, instead of delaying study because of love, and drawing water with a sieve in the end. The love problem of contemporary college students-feelings must be single-minded, and the relationship between love and friendship must be straightened out. Because college students are young and immature, they are easily influenced by the surrounding environment and people, which leads to emotional instability between lovers and produces vacillating bad ideas. When you say this, you don't forget to be ambiguous with that, which leads to the situation that affects the relationship between classmates. This is against the principle. The relationship between lovers must not be confused with that between friends of the opposite sex. This can't be anything. Therefore, during the period of love, we must ensure the single-mindedness of our feelings and remember not to be half-hearted, otherwise we may pay the price for it. The love problem of contemporary college students-stand up when the other person needs it. As both parties in love, besides parents, lovers should be the closest people. So be considerate and care about each other and be their strong backing. No matter what difficulties and problems you encounter, you should be able to stand up for each other, solve problems for each other and protect your lover. The most taboo between lovers is that you are not around when you are most needed. This situation hurts the feelings of lovers the most. The Love Problem of Contemporary College Students —— Banning off-campus renting. Nowadays, there is an atmosphere among college students, that is, after falling in love for a period of time, renting a house off campus and living a quasi-family life for two people. On the one hand, it increases the economic burden on both sides, on the other hand, it delays their studies. The complex off-campus environment poses a threat to the safety of both lovers. Once something goes wrong, no one can afford the consequences. Therefore, during the period of love, lovers still have to live on campus to ensure a healthy living and learning environment.