Because of Excellence, there must be many friends around, and there must be good friends. Generally, excellent people have their own hobbies, so they are not lonely.
Because they are excellent, they have strength. They live freely, have a place to go, have someone to rely on, have money to spend and have something to do. As a girl said, I can earn money to support my parents and family, I can beat and scold the streets to protect myself, and I can change water to cook and repair home appliances. What do I want a man to do? Wash and cook for him every day, and prevent mistresses.
Because excellent people are generally more mature and have wider knowledge than ordinary people. Therefore, it is more difficult to be tempted, impulsive and insensitive, so it is difficult to accept it easily.
Because they know exactly what they love, I'm afraid they will only get close when the person they really love appears, not when a similar and better person appears.