In the process of our growth, there will be various voices telling us what life should be like and how to take the road of life. Some of these voices can be used for reference, while others are not. Because life has reasonable and unreasonable goals. Reasonable goals will greatly mobilize our enthusiasm and enable us to make continuous achievements; Unreasonable goals will make us lose confidence and never recover. In this regard, we must use a realistic point of view to guide. After setting goals from reality, we should constantly test the goals in practice and constantly sum up and adjust them, so as to find a most practical, objective and successful growth path.

2, life should be good at grasping.

First, we should grasp life in the long river of time and prolong it continuously. We should make more contributions with our limited lives. Cherish life, cherish work, cherish life. Time waits for no one, every day and every moment is your own, you can't waste it, you can't waste it; Time waits for no one, time waits for no one, and time is ruthless. We should make life more valuable and meaningful in a specific time, grasp life in the long river of time, prolong life and realize the appreciation of life value.

Second, we should grasp life in space and enlarge it constantly. Life is great, man created the world, but among all things in the universe, man is still small. Grasping life in space-time means that people should be broad-minded, broad-minded, and take the initiative to know the world, transform the world, create the world and enlarge life. Although we can't dominate the world, some of us have a great influence on the world and society all our lives.

Third, we should put life on the social stage and constantly enrich it. Life is both personal and social. We should put individuals on the big stage of society, think more about society, serve others and contribute more to others. This is the requirement of capitalist outlook on life. If people only meet their own needs, it is selfish and humble.

Fourth, put life on the platform of career, and constantly grasp and develop life. To develop life, we must keep pace with the times. How to develop should be based on doing business. It is said that life is a career life. If you don't work or do business, the value of life will not be reflected. As a producer of * * *, we should always strive for * * * productism for life.

3, life should be satisfied and not satisfied, and those who are satisfied are always happy.

No desire is just. Experience and lessons show that a person's desire is too strong and too high, which often leads to life distortion. Money, power and things are tempting to everyone, but we should understand them correctly. Regarding money, we should have this experience: money can buy medicine, but it can't buy health; Money can buy a bed, but it can't buy sleep; Money can't buy affection and happiness. Money can buy many tangible things, but it can't buy many intangible things. So we should be content. As for power, as I said just now, power is a "double-edged sword". Every cadre in party member should treat the power in his hand with awe, so that it can be truly mastered and used by the people. Content is always happy, content is always happy. People should be satisfied with what they have and know what they have. People's greatest weakness, but also fatal weakness, is that they can't see their own weaknesses, but they can see the weaknesses of others clearly. In particular, there is a big gap between party member and party member in fulfilling their duties and obligations, and in governing for the people and serving the people wholeheartedly. We should be aware of the shortcomings.

If you want to make progress in life, you should also know how to give up.

Aggressive life is rewarding, and giving up life is happy. We say that enterprising is a philosophy of life, and giving up is also a philosophy of life. You can't be happy if you don't give up something in life and have a heavy burden. When people are born, they hold on to everything in the world with both hands, and when they leave, they die, and finally give up, all of them. Many times giving up equals gaining.

Step 5 live a happy life

Happiness comes from the heart. The so-called "happiness comes from the heart, trouble comes from the heart" is the truth. Nine times out of ten, things in life. But no matter what happens, it depends on how you look at it and how you handle it. There is a saying that mentality determines everything.