Why doesn't the male dormitory in college feel as good as that in high school? Bian Xiao analyzed the following points according to this problem. The difference in the first region will lead to different living habits and different personalities. For example, people in some areas are particularly fond of spicy food, meat and wine, while people in some areas are vegetarian and have a light taste, so it is difficult to eat together. Dinner is an important way to cultivate friendship. And there are people with different work and rest habits, who like to stay up late and get up late, especially noisy, while others are the opposite. In this case, it is difficult to play together, so it is better if there is no contradiction.

Compared with high school, we spend most of our time in the classroom. We are people from the same place, have more topics and spend more time together. Do you think some people don't take a bath for several days, can you stand it? Some people like to play games in the middle of the night, and the sound of typing on the keyboard will affect your rest. Watching TV without headphones is very loud. Who can stand it? In winter, when the air conditioner is on, the doors can be opened. When it is hot, life can't be integrated, let alone other places.

The second pursuit is different. After the college entrance examination, everyone can finally relax in the university, but this relaxation lasted for three or four years, and finally found no gain. Maybe when you enter the university, you think you can play with a group of study roommates, but later you will find that this is not what you think, but some boys have their own thinking and will not be easily influenced by others. They will have their own after-school life, and everyone is different.

Third, we don't have the pure enthusiasm as before, and we don't give our feelings easily. We are beginning to feel that it is not easy to have a heart-to-heart conversation with each other. We once talked, played ball together and sang songs. We are close friends. Now that it has happened, you may not be friends. Different cars have different hobbies, so this is probably the reason why it is not easy to get along with. When I was in high school, my study time was very tight. I spend most of my time with my roommate. When you stay up at night, everyone can talk. In college, I can't play together, or I can't do any activities together. There is someone more suitable for you than your roommate. If you go with your friends, your roommate will go with his friends, so there will be less natural communication.

In fact, the friendship of university dormitory is very cherished, and if you don't cherish it, you will be looked down upon. If you are good enough, you will certainly gain a friendship in college. Even without friends, a person can live well. Then friendship needs management and communication, so use your positive side to influence it, and use positive energy to influence it. Then who doesn't want to be friends with such people?