Take the initiative to talk to others and let your guard down. Chatting between friends and classmates should not be defensive. Put down your so-called face and take the initiative to talk to others, and others will be willing to talk to you.

2

Learning and entertainment want to be combined. All work and no play looks like a nerd, and few people want to associate with you. So, if you are tired of studying, go play and try to integrate into the group. This not only enhances popularity, but also allows you to combine work and rest.

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Take part in more group activities. No matter in company or school, people are not independent individuals. When there are group activities, you must take part in them, so as to pull in their friendship.

four

Find your own skills. Your grades are average, your work is average, and your speech is average. No matter what you do, you have no specialty, no characteristics, no surprises, and you can't shine anywhere. It is normal for others to ignore you at this time, and everyone wants to make friends with excellent people. If you are not good enough, don't consider popularity. If you want to learn technology, your popularity will naturally come.

five

Relax and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Good popularity is not achieved overnight, but long-term contact and reciprocity, which can not only help people, help others solve problems, but also bring joy to others. People prefer such people.

six

Read more books on interpersonal communication and find out the reasons why you are not popular. Don't feel inferior when people are unpopular. It is necessary to find the reason in the right way in order to prescribe the right medicine.

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Keep an optimistic and positive attitude, smile at others and express yourself bravely, and your popularity will get better and better.