Home is the harbor of our hearts and the warmest habitat when we are tired, but for some people, home is a quagmire. Not only will we not get the happiness we expect, but we will be devastated.
1, unscrupulous mother-in-law
Recalling the case of Changshu's evil mother-in-law killing her daughter-in-law, I still feel cold sweat behind my back. How much does the old lady have to hate her daughter-in-law to cut her daughter-in-law so hard, with her head and body separated by only a layer of skin. It is incredible that an old man should be so vicious. This mother-in-law is Liu Xiuying, who was over 60 years old when she committed the crime. She has been married three times. Now the son beside her is Liu Xiuying's youngest son. She thinks this son is the most promising and caring. The son's name is Dong Gangbiao. He was born in a remote rural area in Shaanxi, and he was very poor since he was a child. His wish is to study hard, leave the countryside and live a good life in the future. After hard work, he obtained a master's degree from Hohai University and worked as a teacher in Changshu Institute of Technology. His wife, Xu Yili, is also a teacher in this university. Not only is she beautiful, but her family conditions are also very good. Her parents are intellectuals. This is much better than Dong Gangbiao with nothing.
From the beginning, when two people fell in love, Xu Yili's parents disagreed, thinking that the conditions in Dong Gangbiao were too poor. However, her daughter thinks that Dong Gangbiao people are kind and considerate, and she is bent on marrying Dong Gangbiao. I can't disagree. After marriage, the young couple lived in the school dormitory without a house. They had a fairly good life, which was disrupted by the sudden arrival of their mother-in-law. Since then, Xu Yili's life has fallen into misery. The mother and son are really full of feudal thoughts. They think that a daughter-in-law will wait on her husband and mother-in-law, while Dong Gangbiao is more obedient to her mother. Since then, this family has never been at peace!
2. Marriage really needs the right family.
Many people think that this is an era, but what should be mentioned? I think Xu Yili's marriage is really caused by improper family background. Dong Gangbiao's childhood living environment and family education are very feudal concepts. They often say that "the daughter-in-law rubbed her face." They think that if a daughter-in-law wants to obey, she has to fight. No matter what status she is outside, she has to serve her in-laws and her husband when she gets home. Xu Yili's family is a very knowledgeable intellectual family. She always treats people with an understanding attitude. Xu Yili's mother-in-law came, crowded with the young couple in the dormitory, and often quarreled about some trivial matters of life. After all, living habits are different, and her mother-in-law is old. Xu Yili has to endure all this. However, letting Liu Xiuying sleep next to the young couple is a bit excessive. It's really a pity that their daughter's parents gave them money to buy a house and let them move in. They also wrote only Dong Gangbiao's name on the real estate license very intimately, thinking that Dong Gangbiao would be better for her daughter.
From these we can see how different the parents of the two families are. The young couple moved into the new house, and her mother-in-law followed. Living in a new house has not only failed to ease the tense relationship, but has triggered new contradictions. More surprisingly, Liu Xiuying slept beside the young couple. It is estimated that most people can't stand it, but Xu Yili has been enduring it. However, patience did not restrain the mother and son. On the contrary, Bengaly not only made more and more unreasonable demands, but also took a tougher attitude towards Xu Yili. Domestic violence is becoming more and more frequent. The unbearable Xu Yili filed for divorce, which was also the cause of being killed!
3. premeditated murder
So, I think it can be seen from many details. For example, on the day of the crime, Liu Xiuying prepared gasoline, fruit knives and other things. After killing someone, he calmly changed his clothes and ate something in the snack bar before he turned himself in generously. So calm, I think the average rural old lady can't do it, and the average person can't do it. This must have been planned by Liu Xiuying and his son, because Liu Xiuying had found gallbladder cancer before, and it was so big. As it turns out, the old lady came out, just as mother and son expected! Before long, Dong Gangbiao got married again. It seems that the plan of mother and son really succeeded!
I don't know how you will feel after reviewing this case, except for the extreme hatred of this shameless and cruel mother and son, and the pity for Xu Yili who was killed by them. It is really too cautious for women to get married. An inappropriate marriage should not be tolerated for a minute. It is irresponsible to put up with the devil. They will only torture you more, without any sympathy. Therefore, it is absolutely necessary to be cautious in marriage and polish your eyes.