If you help without restrictions, you will form a dependence, and this dependence will make your help meaningless, because help should also learn to understand the true meaning.
Second, learn to speak, don't say meaningless words. It is especially important to learn to improve your emotional intelligence when you are in college, because it will be of great help to you later. Being able to talk will sometimes make your classmates like you more and let more people contact you. Communication in college is really important, which is a necessary condition for you to go to society.
Thirdly, proper humor among students will be boring if there is no fun. After all, youth is always short. At this time, we must cherish the university for four years, and it is most interesting to leave good memories between students.
Fourth, don't compare yourself with others, let alone others, just because you are still a student and have no ability to make money. Even if you have a good family, don't have any comparison mentality. The only thing you can do is to keep a low profile, because everyone doesn't like people who compare with others.
When you get to college, you will find that students have lost their immaturity in high school and will look more mature. Because you come from all corners of the country and have different personalities, you must learn to tolerate each other, so that the overall atmosphere will be harmonious. After all, collective life is an understanding attitude.
There are contradictions between classmates, so we should sit together and talk at the first time. After all, you have been together for four years, not four minutes, and you are not strangers.
When I was in college, our dormitory relationship was very harmonious. There won't be seven WeChat groups in a dormitory. Maybe all the roommates I met were sensible. I really miss my classmates along the way, and I will keep in touch after graduation, because I cherish this feeling.
During college, parties are the most common, because they can be regarded as the best way to ease relations. More parties will make your more friendly. Boys' dorms are like brothers and girls' dorms are like sisters.
Take part in more public welfare activities with your roommates, because this is a group, and you have experienced more things together and more feelings. You can work part-time or help others together, get to know each other in the process of doing things, and even cherish each other's friendship after graduation.
In fact, communication between people is an appreciation of human nature, and it is also a process for you to know yourself. When your relationship with your classmates is handled well, what you will do in the future will not be too bad. This is a process of enlightenment and a necessary journey in life.
University is also a mature period. When you go to the society, you will find that many communication methods used in life are learned from universities, so this is a growing process, and I hope to make more friends in universities!