Between people, it is mutual.

People who love others will always love others.

When you have someone else in your heart, the whole world will be gentle with you.

Yes, people who have others in mind know how to put themselves in others' shoes.

Tell two short stories about myself.

(1) The house rented before is no longer rented. This morning, I went to deliver the house. As soon as we entered the door, the tenant said to us, I just had someone clean it yesterday. The room looks really neat, and the furniture and appliances are well maintained.

Do you think I met a good tenant?

I want to start with this. When I rented it to them, in order to avoid people often saying that my house was unsightly when I refunded the rent, the day before I rented it to them, I specially asked my housekeeper to do a cleaning. When I rented it to them, my home was very refreshing, and I specifically told them about it.

So there was a scene just now.

When I asked my aunt to do cleaning, my family objected. Because they think I'm carrying coals to Newcastle.

Before this handover, I specially asked my family to guess whether the house would be messy. The answer is yes.

Actually, really, things are not as bad as we thought. When you know how to put yourself in others' shoes, the world will be really gentle with you.

(2) Not long ago, you lost your new mobile phone watch.

When I called, the other party answered the phone but told me hesitantly that I was nearby. People were not there when we passed by. Then the phone kept turning off. ...

It is lost before it is covered by heat, and this fragile little soul can't accept it.

Anyway, she is still angry: I want to call 1 10, I want to gag him with paper balls, and I want him to eat garbage. ...

When I gave her a bath at night, I asked her, honey, if you found something from others, would you give it back to them? (Because she had encountered a similar situation before, she found a stack of Altman cards and liked them very much, but I suggested that she put them away. Maybe someone else will come back for them. She is very unhappy. Because the value is not great, maybe others don't want it, I didn't continue to insist, so that the problem has not been fundamentally solved and I have been worried. )

She hesitated and said, if it's fake and useless (or kind), I won't return it because he lost it himself.

I expected this answer, but I think the problem was solved at once!

Then I said, honey, the mobile phone watch is real. You can make a phone call. After the other party found out, at first she was a good person (ready to return it), later he found it useful, and then she became a bad person (lying and not returning it). That's because the watch is very valuable to him. So it is normal not to return it.

Second, as you said, you lost it yourself, not others.

I repeated it three times until she really understood.

Then, I asked her, do you want to know what mom would do?

She said yes, and I said: Mom will definitely return what she found, because people who lost things will be as anxious as we are now, and children will cry and be as sad as you. Secondly, this thing is not ours. We can't get other people's things without paying. So my mother will definitely contact someone and return it to them as soon as possible. If I can't get in touch, I'll put it in place and give my valuables to the police uncle. By the way, I told her the story that we lost our wallet in the hospital and found it when we gave birth to her.

The little guy understood a lot in an instant, and took the opportunity to ask her, will you return what others found in the future? She said: Yes, because others will be very anxious.