* Maintain the "halo effect"

In intimate relationships, there is a relationship of mutual attraction. If a woman wants a man to reach the top, then this woman must have a place in a man's heart. Psychologists believe that when a woman has some qualities that men appreciate, then men will always maintain a high degree of love for women. How to keep a woman's halo effect from the beginning to the subsequent process? First of all, women should not praise themselves, but boldly show their advantages in front of each other. Many women are used to being women behind men. They hide their talents and advantages to help men achieve their careers and do what they like. But it's been a long time

The advantages of women will be ignored by men, and even in the eyes of men, women are useless in front of him.

So you should always love yourself.

Only by loving your life, pursuing your hobbies and boldly proving yourself to each other can this halo effect be maintained. Then you will not only attract men's attention, but also make your more harmonious, and he will be proud of your Excellence.

* Intimacy and "distance" combine stupid women to chase men, and smart women let men chase themselves. Some people compare the relationship between men and women to flying kites. If the string in their hands is too far, the kite will fly away easily. If the string in their hands is too close to them, the kite can't fly high. It's like women and men. If the relationship between men and women is too close, men will feel tired and even feel that women are too attached to themselves.

They just want to find freedom.

But if women are too far away from men, men will habitually choose to indulge themselves.

Only by keeping a proper distance can a person's relationship be closer. Usually, smart women.

They know that they can keep a certain distance while enjoying intimacy. She will give him a kiss at work.

Give him a hug after work, chat with him when he wants to sleep at night, and she can also give him space and freedom.

She won't doubt him when he goes out, and she will give him space when he wants to be alone. This way of getting along will make men feel very comfortable and there will be no pressure to get along with women.

Listening and praising is the art of love.

We are always used to expressing our ideas.

However, we always neglect to listen to what others want to say. We are always used to putting our ideas above others, but seldom like to praise others. We found that the confidantes around men, in ancient times and real life, are mostly women who know how to listen and can relieve their emotional pressure.

Give them moderate psychological comfort.

On the contrary, some women will play the role of mother, nag at men and even accuse him to his face, while men will choose to run away from this woman as they did when they were children.

Learn to listen to each other's ideas

Listen carefully when he tells you everything about him. In fact, this is also an emotional value for him. Only if you can spend a little time getting to know him, can you really understand the man now, what he really thinks and what he needs. At this time, all you have to do is try your best to understand his needs. Language is always the best mediator in gender relations.

Don't be stingy with your praise.

Give him more love and encouragement, and men will love you more for it.