1, the university is a microcosm of society, and most people in the university are more realistic. I remember hearing a sentence when I first went to college, and I thought it was right. "It is best for boys in college to have a girlfriend who can maintain a long-term relationship, and it is best for girls not to fall in love." I don't think you understand why, although girls in universities are beginning to become realistic, they are still much simpler than those in society. The purpose is also very clear, and the test rate in society is more. In college, it is more important to have a good relationship not only with classmates, but also with teachers. I don't like reading, but my grades are good. Many freshmen say it's a pity that they didn't get into the university. Many people failed, but I didn't, because the teacher knew me. Haha, failure is annoying. If you have a good relationship with the teacher, many things will think of you first. You can share any quota. It's so cool! Having a good relationship with boys means being generous (if you are not generous, be generous). Some boys are fake, some are true, depending on who uses what method, everyone tells lies. For those who are powerful, don't show it even if you are unhappy, either ignore it or make him feel naive with your generosity, for girls! See if you want to be friends or lovers. In my opinion, you can be merciful, but you'd better not find a girlfriend so soon. Some backup candidates will do. Looking for a girlfriend too early is a stupid person, giving people a feeling of hunger and thirst. Be nice to girls, because girls will say which boy is good and it is convenient to do anything with a good reputation! But don't appear too frivolous, thinking that you are lewd. Take care.
It is very important to maintain a good relationship with teachers. I emphasize this point very much! It's certainly important to study hard, but don't be a bookworm. In college, besides grades, you should also look at many skills, organizational skills and interpersonal skills. If you ask such questions, you won't know much about this knowledge. If you have a good relationship with the teacher, people will think that you are dead, and classmates will think that you are flattering and isolating you. Therefore, you should make unannounced visits and go to the teacher's office more often to ask the teacher if he needs any help. Go to the teacher more often, and the teacher will remember.
I think it is necessary to join the student union. Just like your ability, it's time to exercise. I used to be in high school, so I felt bored and naive. I just put the money in my pocket. It's so hypocritical. This is the meaning of university. If you quit after one semester, you can learn how to be hypocritical in the student union. The people there are the most realistic and close to the society. If you are not smart enough, don't kill yourself.
4. The performance is too good? You don't have to worry now. I don't think it's possible (not to discourage you) that there are too many talented people in the university, and you know the doorways of death. You are still learning slowly, don't worry. I think the most important thing in a university is to be specialized and show off, either with grades, sports or ability. I think your grades are more realistic. If you get a first-class scholarship every year, other aspects will be much easier, and you have to plot against it.
Roommates are the easiest. I hope you didn't give me any kindness. It is very important for universities to learn to drink and socialize without hurting anyone. I have to put up with what you said, and I can't bear to move out. I had a nervous breakdown and hated noise, so I went out to live without worrying about property. It's normal to have friction at school. I have to learn to solve it myself. How can we know the specific situation? !