I believe there must be some classmates around you who have a monotonous life, a fixed study plan every day, basically put an end to all entertainment activities, have their own clear goals and work hard for them.
They are always at the top of the professional scores, and all kinds of scholarships are weak points. They are the kind of top student that we will envy when we see them, but we may not be able to persist. They are the children of others when their parents grow up.
social status
There is a kind of social butterfly in university. You can find them in various occasions, such as student union, school basketball team, art troupe and so on. Sometimes you have to envy them. They are well-connected and popular, and they can always chat with others quickly.
They can also have endless topics with strangers, and they can quickly become the focus of the crowd no matter where they are. They can always ease the embarrassment and promote the atmosphere. It seems that as long as they are at the party, there will be no silence and embarrassment, and they are simply social experts.
Love state
There are many couples who go out in pairs in college, but one pair is special: they stick together with the other half every day, and they will miss each other only for half a day. In the eyes of other students, they became conjoined babies.
But they don't care. They still have classes, eat together, go shopping together and watch movies together. As long as the other half is around, they don't have to worry about whether college life will be boring or how to spend their leisure time. Maybe in their eyes, this is what college love looks like.
anxiety state
Such people can also be found in universities. They worry about their future every day and try to improve themselves in various ways: play less games and read more books; Go for fun running to exercise; Feel the workplace environment in advance by doing part-time internship; Unfortunately, nothing lasts. After reading a book for a while, I played games with peace of mind and comforted myself, "I want to combine work and rest." Accidentally indulging for too long, I began to blame myself and regretted that I didn't grasp the degree.
In short, they just circulate in intermittent diligence, continuous decadence and daily self-blame, and then start a new day in self-comfort and alarmism.
Xianyuzhou
Under normal circumstances, college students should be full of vigor and vitality, but some people seem to have entered the "state of providing for the aged" in advance. They don't seem interested in anything. Weibo, Taobao, dormitory drama, playing glory or eating chicken are their favorite forms of entertainment.
WiFi and mobile phones seem to be their best friends. They don't need other recreational activities, and they are even tired of too many social activities. They have their own fixed way of life. Although they lack freshness and excitement, it seems that they can spend every day in a familiar way and feel inexplicably safe.
Buddhist countries
There is a large group of step-by-step students in the university. They attend classes regularly every day, finish their homework on time, and occasionally take part in class activities enthusiastically. They are not very decadent, but they don't have much desire. Anyway, they will do whatever they come here. Dull is their favorite state of life. They don't need to be too busy or lazy. Whether it's love or scholarship, it's a "let nature take its course" mentality. Perhaps most of us belong to this state.