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Boys kneel and kowtow to their girlfriends in the canteen, causing heated discussion. What is the best way for couples to solve conflicts?
It's normal for couples to have conflicts. After all, when two people are together, there will always be big and small frictions in life. The video of a boy kneeling and kowtowing to his girlfriend in a school in Zhengzhou caused a heated discussion, and everyone had mixed opinions. Suddenly I feel that this boy is really too humble. I can kneel and kowtow in love and I don't know what's wrong with two people. However, there are many ways to solve the contradiction between lovers, depending on how two people use it.

One: manage people. In love, although two people say that they will quarrel, they don't say that they must be separated. Everyone is trying to get to the end as much as possible. So no matter what conflicts occur between two people, everyone may be angry at that time, but if the other person is willing to bow their heads, then we should do it reasonably instead of holding on to it all the time. If this has always been the case, maybe this is what everyone calls comparison.

Two: Bow to each other. In feelings, we are all in an equal position. Doesn't mean you have to give up all girls, right or wrong, because you are a boy. If you are wrong, you must admit it. Just correct it. So the best appearance in love is that both sides will bow their heads and apologize for each other. Moreover, couples who were noisy before will be happier. It will be fine after a while, and I won't say that I know it.

Three: think calmly. Each of us will have our own emotions. We may lose control of ourselves when we are angry, but we will regret it very much later. So if two people really quarrel, we can try to calm them down and think about it calmly. This matter may be understood slowly, but if we keep talking angrily, it may aggravate the contradiction of this matter and be detrimental to the feelings of both sides.

Of course, this is just a quarrel between two lovers today, and they don't really want to separate, but if a person really doesn't like you and wants to leave you, it's no use how humble you are, because the other person's heart is no longer on you.