"I seriously doubt that I'm going back to a fake home. I met a fake mother, who was always refused, didn't get up in the morning, didn't sleep at night, didn't say hello to people ..." Some college students said that they were not as happy as they thought.

Detailed introduction:

The reasons why college students are "disgusted" by their parents are concentrated: dirty rooms, unhealthy work and rest, and nothing. Teachers in colleges and universities suggest that college students learn to put themselves in their own shoes, spend some time with their parents every day and occasionally participate in housework.

Accustomed to staying in bed, this room is "like a kennel"

My mother wakes me up at half past seven every day. This is a war. "Xiao Wang came back from a holiday at Northwest Normal University, and his mother almost made a big noise, making a small noise every day." Wake me up for dinner in the morning. When I watch TV at night and see 1 1, my mother will urge me to sleep. If you don't sleep, you will say it every once in a while, just like a timed alarm clock. "

Xiaoyi also faces the distress of being called "early" by her mother every day. "At school, if there is no class in the morning, I will lie in bed for a while and brush my mobile phone at night to fall asleep." Xiao Yi said that the work and rest of staying up late was suddenly changed by her mother, and she always felt unaccustomed to it, and sometimes it was inevitable to talk back.

In addition, "as long as I take off my clothes and spread them on the sofa in the morning and the quilt is not folded, my mother will say that I am not like a girl and have no organization." Yi is very wronged. "My mother is crazy, even saying that my room is like a kennel." When I was at school, it was obvious that many students were like this. How come my mother has become so serious?

What did the parents say?

"If you don't help with the housework, you can't even clean your own house. I have to say it every time someone comes home, which makes me very embarrassed! " Xiao Yi's mother told reporters that she didn't really want to scold her children and didn't know how to cherish the time with her daughter. "I hope to change her behavior habits through constant reminders." She said that excellent college students should not only study, but also know how to live.

expert opinion/advice

Xu Chuan, deputy secretary of the Party Committee of the School of Energy and Power Engineering, analyzed: "In short, it is the expectation gap. Parents feel that their children's performance is not what they want to see. "

Xu Chuan suggested that children should put themselves in others' shoes. For example, you have a son who hasn't seen you for half a year. When he gets home, he stays up all night playing games and playing mobile phones. Do you doubt that this is a fake son? Not so sweet, he didn't come to help, just bowed his head and took his mobile phone. Is this son of a bitch like this at school? I'm so dissatisfied, so nagging, and I hate the feeling of iron not turning into steel.